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how it is to be in love? how to love someone properly? I've always been a understanding type and now want to be understood too... when I asked my partner for little of him time, attention and love (which I wasn't getting from him for few months and I directly asked him on a text) he did stopped all communication with me... it's been a week and I'm sad. I miss him... he never brokeup or said anything other than that he was busy... what should I do now? understand or leave? I wanna be a love that stays that makes all kind of effort to have him but I've been expecting the same love and efforts... how to love truly and unconditional when I'm hurt...?? why is it so hard to take decisions and why is it so hard to let them go?

blissfulkitten6 · Answer

I feel so alone I have nobody to share this with I've not told any of my friends about this relationship because he's my parallel cousin and it's illegal in Hindus to have a relationship like this but I was ready to fight for it we had a strong connection but now he's doing his I'm Goin mad.. he was the one who started this relationship knowing I had feelings for him now I've become a burden to him

perceus12galactus · Answer

I feel u r a bit dependent on him for ur happiness....I understand people come in relationship to be happy....accept the absence of his...try to stand on ur own legs again....go with ur friends for a walk or a small tour....don't worry time will reveal everything till then focus on urself a bit....don't blame urself..Don't blame anyone....just try to be in present where there is u and ur friends.....time will reveal everything...and never lose faith in urself....if u have lived till now...u can survive everything in ur life...and be the brave...

blissfulkitten6 · Answer

was i wrong asking him for his time? why do people have so much time in for their partner initially and and loose intrest later? it's nothing like I'm unhappy in my life ik happiness should come from within myself.  but I'm sad to loose him... to see him loosing interest in our relationship

perceus12galactus · Answer

no it's okay to ask for something u want....people don't value things when they get it much.....it can be love or money or energy or happiness....I do understand.....I have seen in my life...I cared too much for someone with time that she got bored of it.....and that's where things got wrong...

blissfulkitten6 · Answer

how do I stop overthinking and blaming myself for everything... I don't know how to deal with this... how to decide what to do... i want to go out with people and forget thing but I don't have that great friend and my parents are not allowing me to go out because my professional exams are nearing and they want me to concentrate...

perceus12galactus · Answer

u need to understand that everytime u don't get things u ask for....people don't treat back the way u treat them...in this mediocre society where younger generation lacks the ability to sacrifice.....u can't blame ur self for what others do to u in ur life...it's okay...if u want to talk with me I'm here....

perceus12galactus · Answer

u can share any social media where u can contact me

blissfulkitten6 · Answer

thank you but I'm not in any social medias 🙁

perceus12galactus · Answer

welcome....it's okay....there are people to help u here....u can talk about ur problems anytime

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