I'm close with my friend, we never named our relationship. I didn't know that I had feelings for her. I'm still not sure. She told me yesterday, that she is going to get married this year and today she received a proposal. I'm feeling numb since then. She treats me like a sister and I'm bisexual who has some sort of feelings for her. I don't want to lose her. But I can't have her in my life too. What should I do? I'm feeling low since yesterday, I can't sleep or eat properly. Please help me...

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empathicWasp5

5 Answers
enragedWeaver5
heyy just tell her how you truly feel about her.. ik it's not easy but it better to tell her now than regret it later... hope everything goes well....
empathicWasp5
But she treats me like a sister, telling her about my feelings will only push her away from me, right?
enragedWeaver5
of course no... she treats you like a family.. right?.. she will listen to you and i am sure she will understand you... everything will be better.. just be honest with her
empathicWasp5
I tried to tell, but the moment I take a pause to tell, she will be like: Please don't complicate things. idk I feel bad at a times...
worldlyMuesli6
hey, tell her ur feelings.it's OK may be she won't understand initially but later may be she will understand.. let her only take the decision. u just tell her honestly about ur feelings . it's always better than regretting of not expressing how u felt for her