I'm in love but he love someone else. but he likes to talk with me he well know that i love him. we were in relationship but we broke up coz he used me. idk wht to do now
shivang
focus on your real life if you have one
bhuuu
yeahh I'm doin that but i still miss him
shivang
I mean your life goal( typing mistake:)
shivang
don't worry, healing take time
shivang
in my case it take almost 6 year to forget her
bhuuu
ohπ₯
bhuuu
but what can i do he wants me as a friend he still wants to talk to me
Golda
Can you please tell me how did you forget her after 6years?
bhuuu
and its hurt when i think he love someone else
shivang
don't be scared π
Golda
1
@bhu please avoid him it will not good for you
shivang
1
@bhuuu stay away from him, he just using you for his own entertainment
bhuuu
@golda i'm thinking the same
shivang
@Golda you are asking something?
bhuuu
but when i say I don't wanna talk to you he blackmail me with my brother's number that he will tell my brother about my relationship.
Golda
@bhuu Yes, don't worry even your long time pain will heal oneday.. You're the one who can save your life!! so please avoid him nd nd live the life of yours..
shivang
@bhuuu did that guy has some kind of visible proof
bhuuu
i totally agree with your words but sometimes it makes me feel so lonely
Golda
1
@bhuu we don't want to be panic when someone threatening us.. Cool and don't respond.. then they will went automatically i hope your brother will not hurt you even if he knows the truth..
shivang
1
I guess Golda is right
skylar
just a warning there are a few creeps(both boys and girls)on this apps .
bhuuu
@golda I don't talk to him anymore
bhuuu
@skylar wht do you mean?
shivang
Every app has those creeps
bhuuu
@shivany exactly!π
skylar
yeah there are, like today I came across a conversation, where both were exchanging ID's for not so innocent purposes .
skylar
yeah... just it was weird thinking like those kinda people on mental health app.
shivang
@bhuuu you mean shivang
shivang
@skylar my bad
bhuuu
@shivang yepp sorry!π
shivang
@golda if you are still interested about how I almost forget my gf in 6 year, I can tel :)
skylar
@shivang it's ok. u guys talking about crushes?
Golda
@Shivang Yes you can
shivang
ok
bhuuu
@skylar nope about our past lifes and ex's
bhuuu
@skylar why do you wanna talk about crush??
skylar
I had crush on this boy, in 8th grade. it turned out I was like 61st girl who had crush on him, and was brutally humiliated.
skylar
now when I look back, I cringe so hard . he looks nothing but like a skeleton.
skylar
@shivang if you guys have some stories to share.
bhuuu
@skylar same thing happened with me tooπ my crush also a like skeleton
shivang
so it my turn I guess
skylar
ππ€£just sometimes puberty hits some people extra hard.
bhuuu
@skylar hahaha! damn trueeπ
skylar
@shivang it your turn
bhuuu
@shivang okay!
Golda
@shivang yes pls!
skylar
seems like he left the chat Or something.
bhuuu
or maybe he is typing his story
bhuuu
@skylar btw we were talking about our crush right?π
skylar
@bhuuu yeah that skeleton was story of my 1st crush.
shivang
sorry can't do it...:(
bhuuu
one day, my crush make intense eye contact with me in front of my whole class and next i caught him with fighting his gf! ughhπ₯
bhuuu
@shivang alright! but what happened to you?
skylar
1
@shivang it's ok we understand, meanwhile take a laugh at my stories - although they are not that funny.
shivang
but here the list I did after break up. 1 graphic designing, 2. spritual side human, 3 learning about human physiology, 4 learning about our culture, 5 yt, 6 talking with needy people etc not bragging just telling the things I started to help my self
skylar
so... that skeleton guy and me ended up being in same class in 9th grade, but he never came - he left the school, without informing anyone, even his best frnds. that my sob story of 1st heartbreak.
bhuuu
@shivang so you're graphic designer??
shivang
yaa
bhuuu
@skylar you have ever been in relationship ?
skylar
@shivang any recos for learning graphic designing? I'm interested.
bhuuu
@shivang ohh that's great! my brother is also a graphic designer nd i love his work:)
skylar
@bhuuu I'm what u'll call a relationship guru, but never been in one.
shivang
@skylar you are lucky atleast you spent some time with your crush
Golda
@shivang Thanks for sharing
bhuuu
@skylar that's interesting π
shivang
@golda my pleasure!
shivang
@bhuuu is a guru
shivang
that's great
skylar
@shivang no , it was awful. I was probably at my lowest at that point. 13yr old me didn't know how to handle rejection(even though that's what I've received my whole life). people talking behind my back everywhere I went- how someone like me would've crush on someone like him and stuffs like that.
shivang
where are you all from?
bhuuu
@shivang you had a crush too?
shivang
but now I guess you can handle rejection
skylar
jharkhand, India
shivang
yaa bhuuu
shivang
so many in my work place
shivang
jharkhand, pretty far
skylar
I would rather say I got better at simply judging people- I was pretty much alone at that time.
bhuuu
chattisgarh:)
skylar
@bhuuu chattisgarh... I've been to bilaspur
bhuuu
@skylar ohh its cool
shivang
and you handle all that by yourself! that's great
bhuuu
but I'm from raipur, chattisgarh
shivang
Delhi
bhuuu
ohh delhi dil waalo k shehar
skylar
I may get raipur as center for ipmat exam.
shivang
π π
shivang
1
I guess you 2 can meet
bhuuu
When is the exam?
skylar
what are you guys currently working or studying?
skylar
2nd july, nah I'll be probably with my dad.
bhuuu
I'm preparing for neet ug
shivang
I am working
bhuuu
ohh alright!
skylar
ooh neet? how's ur prep? I'm attempting too.
skylar
so hows adult life Mr. shivang?
bhuuu
not good like I'm forgetting everything
bhuuu
for neet ug 2022?
skylar
yeah, although I'm not at all preped.
shivang
1
it's like a climbing the unclimbable Kailash parvat
bhuuu
1
alright! I'm leaving see yaa tomorrow guys:)
skylar
u'll do good, if u've been prepping
skylar
seems like nothing I've nt been doing.
shivang
bye bhuuu
shivang
So how long you have been using this app
shivang
Skylar?
skylar
1
I guess it's tym to shut my Overthinking brain, by guys. thnx for listening guys, I appreciate it.
skylar
@shivang just from past few weeks.
skylar
recently started interacting
shivang
same
shivang
so you want to go away from your home
skylar
yeah I want to..
shivang
by by :) thanks for this interesting chat everyone