im too shy to talk to girls thinking what if she is happy or not while im talking i secretley think about not upsetting anyone at any cost and overthink this in my mind every second😰

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clarke34 · Answer

i need help in this

Monna · Answer

do you have a sister or a female friend

clarke34 · Answer

hi monna

lely · Answer

first are u male or female ?

Monna · Answer

can try with them by approaching them or find someone you trust to help you

clarke34 · Answer

of course male

Monna · Answer

I'm a female

clarke34 · Answer

okay so when i eye contact with them i feel difficulty

Monna · Answer

okay but it's still okay

lely · Answer

but anyways and whoever you are u need to know that there is no need to overthink rejection is normal in our lives don't think too much wether the person u talk to is upset or not just be calm and try to get ride of your social anxity if someone is not happy about talking to you u will surely know just dont stress yourself

clarke34 · Answer

and i want to talk to them but then i think what if she ignored

satesh · Answer

bro, just be true to urself. U wil make good female Friends slowly. Its true U dont want to upset anyone. there r many girls WHO want good male Friends

Monna · Answer

if u Wanna talk to a girl first know what the girl you wanna talk to her likes.... favorite place and what she likes doing

clarke34 · Answer

how can i start

Monna · Answer

don't be afraid to upset anyone it's human nature so never be afraid

clarke34 · Answer

so should i not feel guilty about making them happy

clarke34 · Answer

because i think a girl need s a person who makes them cheerful all time

Monna · Answer

actually rejection is sometimes the best thing coz you learn and dot loose hope always try again no matter what and don't force issues..... everyone is unique and if a person wanna be your friend they will be trust me

clarke34 · Answer

😨

clarke34 · Answer

how can i emotionally control others pain

Monna · Answer

some girls needs intelligent guys only who challenges them in stuffs and someone to support us everyday even if we feel that we aren't worth it

Monna · Answer

to control pain find something fun to do or just cry it out

clarke34 · Answer

can i ask whether you have faced difficulty while talking to boys

clarke34 · Answer

because i feel girls should be cared and nurtured no matter who she is

clarke34 · Answer

i feel scared to hurt any girls at any cost

clarke34 · Answer

hey monna

clarke34 · Answer

are u there

clarke34 · Answer

😢

Monna · Answer

hey

Monna · Answer

don't be afraid of hurting a girl it's natural and this things happen

Monna · Answer

have face so much difficulties when it came to guy but when I learnt if someone wanna be ur friend they'll give you a chance

clarke34 · Answer

i usually talk less and many say that im proudy or arrogant but the truth is so different

clarke34 · Answer

monna heyy

I am not fit for anyone

Unloving

Need someone to talk to!!

not able to accept my reality !!