Depend on how you treat eachother. if you use queen and king principle and understanding in side your love. your life will be more beautiful.
whats queen and king principle?
queen and king principle: you love each other unconditionally and wise.
so should i get a gf?
You treat eachother the taste of love that you both need. if you found that girl, please take care and give her what she deserves.
Ask yourself: Are you ready to get into the relationship?
how do ik if shes the one?
You can notice by the feeling when you are with her.
and also the feeling that she has toward you also.
what are some signs?
thats shes into me?
no ,will just increase your stress lol
Signs are simple: if you both ( you and her) feel more better than you are alone and growing with eachother, then she will be your soulmate.
Remember: before you let someone to enter your relationship stage in your life. Please use both of your brain and heart kindly and wisely on that person.
happyguy, why do you say so?
Another one thing is: please don't be too hurry to get into relationship point, spend sometime wisely with eachother first.
if you are already depressed and not happy with your life, adding another person in it won't be of much help. you will feel very energetic and happy in the first 1-2 months and as soon as the honeymoon period will get over, you will start getting stressed about the relationships
firstly you need to be happy with yourself
by depressed i meant like nothing is really mpv9ng forward in life
also im not getting married
I used to have and feel unvalue and not getting enough care and love from my partner, so I don't want anyone to face the thing I used to.
i just like this colleague
ah ok thx
all i can say is, you need to find happiness in yourself. however it might vary from person to person . don't hurry into a relationship just because of this reason as you might unintentionally hurt ur S.O's feelings
And if you want a healthy relationship, you and your partner need to kill three things (ego, unreasonable jealousy, overthinking).
thank you guys for your tips. i rly appreciate it
ok, wish you found your soulmate soon.
@adoring ..can u explain on the unreasonable jealousy part...what do u actually mean by "unreasonable" jealousy
unreasonable jealousy: is the feeling of jealousy without specific reason and without balancing between trust and control in relationships.
whats the fine line between actual jealousy and unreasonable jealousy?
Actual jealousy is the feeling that went through your observations and reasons that you see clearer than making assumptions.
unreasonable jealousy usually happens when you have feeling to control your partner. It is like you love to be with them so much and over and then you don't give your partner some space to explore the thing they personally love doing. When you give eachother some space, your love and trust and excitement will be more better than staying together all the time.