if you are already depressed and not happy with your life, adding another person in it won't be of much help. you will feel very energetic and happy in the first 1-2 months and as soon as the honeymoon period will get over, you will start getting stressed about the relationships
happyguy12
firstly you need to be happy with yourself
anotherjohndoe
by depressed i meant like nothing is really mpv9ng forward in life
anotherjohndoe
also im not getting married
anotherjohndoe
i just like this colleague
anotherjohndoe
ah ok thx
happyguy12
all i can say is, you need to find happiness in yourself. however it might vary from person to person . don't hurry into a relationship just because of this reason as you might unintentionally hurt ur S.O's feelings
anotherjohndoe
thank you guys for your tips. i rly appreciate it
happyguy12
@adoring ..can u explain on the unreasonable jealousy part...what do u actually mean by "unreasonable" jealousy
happyguy12
whats the fine line between actual jealousy and unreasonable jealousy?