career first then love if you go with love it can bring you down but of you find a really good partner take but it's not likely to happen. without being a bit successful in life a good partner is someone who communicates and brings you up not down
ardentorange7
obviously carrier
adoringhbu4
It's depends,, lover can be change but carrier will change your life
alertsnipe9
carrier at all costs!!
emptytacos1
What if you excel in career but end up having nobody to share your success with? Even when you eat in silver cutlery, the food fails to satisfy because you are lonely all inside. But if you have a right partner, even sufferings become worthwhile.
alertsnipe9
do you have that right partner right now? or you are finding one?
alertsnipe9
you don't need anyone to be happy or complete, if you are on the right path you'll be happy and complete in yourself. for example you can read about swami vivekanand. he didn't had a partner but he was happy and complete because he was on the right path. Or you can even take an example of ratan tata.
emptytacos1
Ratan tata had affairs and could not marry because of circumstances. Thought he wanted to marry in life.
I have the right, most suitable partner. He is so perfect that i am so attached that i am unable to focus on my career. I am on verge or career making but i am 24, sooner or later i will have to marry. The guy wants marriage now. I am confused that should i leave him to focus on career or just marry him. I do have option of doing whatever i want after marriage too. But i dont know if marriage would be a distraction , if i will be able to balance or not.
joyfultoucan1
I'm going to go with love, it's exactly what you said, if you have the right partner and they make you happy then suffering from a career won't be as bad as if you were alone. having the right person will make everything seem better and you guys can figure it out together
