Hi, I am a guy (ignore the dp, i am a guy). so the issue is that i had matched with a girl on tinder and she asked if i had insta id and i said no because i didnot have at that time. but she took my number. i told her i am unmatching her becz i am deleting tinder for taking break. 3 months had passed, she did not text me on my number. i had created an insta id and sent her a follow request and texted her that i was the guy on tinder, here is my new insta account. i deleted the message and follow req bcs of anxiety. please tell me if i did something wrong/inappropriate

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Hi,  I am a guy (ignore the dp, i am a guy). so the issue is that i had matched with a girl on tinder and she asked if i had insta id and i said no because i didnot have at that time. but she took my number. i told her i am unmatching her becz i am deleting tinder for taking break. 3 months had passed, she did not text me on my number. i had created an insta id and sent her a follow request and texted her that i was the guy on tinder, here is my new insta account. i deleted the message and follow req bcs of anxiety. please tell me if i did something wrong/inappropriate

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

she won't be able to believe you as you didn't have insta and also you matched her...I know you have the reason but still the least you can do was tell her to message you on WhatsApp and than you should unmatch her

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

somenody please reply if I was inappropriate or not?

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

request to reply

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

please

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

you were not just message her

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

sorry I didnt understand your comment you were not jusy message her

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

you said that you deleted your message and follow request just because of anxiety

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

yes i deleted it mostly she did not read the message what ik

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

so I am saying you to message her that you guys were once matched on tinder and at that time you didn't have insta but now you have one and want to be friends with her again if she is comfortable

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

but she has my number and she hasnt texted back so still can I ask her on insta if she is comfortable?

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

I guess because it goes on request chat so people don't check that much it's like spam message in gmail

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

i understood abt message req

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

yeah even if I got the number of the boy from tinder I won't text him as it's like sharing my personal number but would be comfortable talking on insta

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

but like if she didnt text on my no so would it be appropriate to text her on insta?

ecstaticponie8 · Answer

okay

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

yesss just give it a try

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