you are writing this post, so you won't be a ghost right?
you want to know to know your interests?
not actually....I need some help
what am actually experiencing
what are you experiencing?
okay let me explain...it a bit I hooked up with this guy we have a kid together but nowadays he seems not to care at all... making me to cry each day am confused because he has other kids with other mother's and unfortunately he's hanging out with one of his baby mamas but he seems not to care at all about my feelings towards him....need some help
what's your relationship with him?
he was my husband
was? are you single right now?
No currently am in a confusion don't know what to do
what's his relation with the others kid's mother's?
you are in a relationship with him?
okay unfortunately he doesn't show any care to the other kids he's like just flexing with her and to make me demoralized
are these other mother's his ex wife?
Nope he has never lived with them
just impregnated them and left them
do you think he love you? or he is doing the same thing which he did earlier with these women?
since when he has been making you feel demoralized?
did some argument happen between you both?
not really he started behaving wired then to realize he has been sleeping with this other baby mama
since when you guys have been married?
we have finished a year
he is cheating on you...don't you think?
what is your child's age?
yeah I know thats why am here for help
6 months old
do want to be with him ?
I suggest you to divorce him because 1) you are a respectable person, 2) you don't want your child to grow in this toxic environment, 3) your child is young so right now he won't have trauma in the future.
if you want to be with him always, just accept the fact that he is just like this and expecting him to change(it will not happen) ....will hurt you. Make peace with him and other ladies
nothing else can be done
are you employed right now?
so I should continue allowing him to do the same things he's doing to me
not really still studying
you can talk to him about his behaviour and how it is hurting.
so you are young...why are you choosing to always live with him?
I don't know...fell in love with him but I don't have a perfect reason for that an
are you in college?
yeah I am in college
think over it again...try to figure out what you want and then take decision
which year of college?
am in second year the last semester
you should take any decision considering yourself and your child because you're young and you don't want to have any regrets in future which are caused by your past decisions.