you are writing this post, so you won't be a ghost right?
brookeboke
yeah
farshy756
you want to know to know your interests?
brookeboke
not actually....I need some help
farshy756
with what?
brookeboke
what am actually experiencing
farshy756
what are you experiencing?
brookeboke
okay let me explain...it a bit I hooked up with this guy we have a kid together but nowadays he seems not to care at all... making me to cry each day am confused because he has other kids with other mother's and unfortunately he's hanging out with one of his baby mamas but he seems not to care at all about my feelings towards him....need some help
farshy756
what's your relationship with him?
brookeboke
he was my husband
farshy756
was? are you single right now?
brookeboke
No currently am in a confusion don't know what to do
farshy756
what's his relation with the others kid's mother's?
farshy756
you are in a relationship with him?
brookeboke
okay unfortunately he doesn't show any care to the other kids he's like just flexing with her and to make me demoralized
brookeboke
still yess
farshy756
are these other mother's his ex wife?
brookeboke
Nope he has never lived with them
brookeboke
just impregnated them and left them
farshy756
do you think he love you? or he is doing the same thing which he did earlier with these women?
farshy756
since when he has been making you feel demoralized?
brookeboke
since January
farshy756
did some argument happen between you both?
brookeboke
not really he started behaving wired then to realize he has been sleeping with this other baby mama
farshy756
since when you guys have been married?
brookeboke
we have finished a year
alertchile0
he is cheating on you...don't you think?
farshy756
what is your child's age?
brookeboke
yeah I know thats why am here for help
brookeboke
6 months old
alertchile0
do want to be with him ?
brookeboke
yeah always
farshy756
I suggest you to divorce him because 1) you are a respectable person, 2) you don't want your child to grow in this toxic environment, 3) your child is young so right now he won't have trauma in the future.
alertchile0
if you want to be with him always, just accept the fact that he is just like this and expecting him to change(it will not happen) ....will hurt you. Make peace with him and other ladies
alertchile0
nothing else can be done
farshy756
are you employed right now?
brookeboke
so I should continue allowing him to do the same things he's doing to me
brookeboke
not really still studying
farshy756
you can talk to him about his behaviour and how it is hurting.
farshy756
in college?
alertchile0
so you are young...why are you choosing to always live with him?
brookeboke
I don't know...fell in love with him but I don't have a perfect reason for that an
farshy756
are you in college?
brookeboke
yeah I am in college
alertchile0
think over it again...try to figure out what you want and then take decision
farshy756
which year of college?
brookeboke
Thank you
brookeboke
am in second year the last semester
farshy756
you should take any decision considering yourself and your child because you're young and you don't want to have any regrets in future which are caused by your past decisions.
