i recently appeared medical entrance exam and my preparation for it was null, as expected the exam went very bad. i have analysied my mistakes and made a propper plan to to take one year and give the exam again. mbbs is my sole goal now and i want to work hard for it, i am all set. my highschool did not went well cause pamdemic syriked and among all these online classes i got lost. so i am taking a drop year now and i truely want to clear the entrance but my parents not wholeheartedly allow me, they are not ready to believe i can make it..they always point out how miserable my studies are and everytime i decide i can do it, i just feel like no i can not. i just want somebody to tell me 'its okay and i belueve in you'. everyday my parents pin me for what went past and they really dont consider i wanna make it this time, it just break me so much...after spending hours in self doubt and hours in convincing myself that i can do it...i feel drained. even if i know what to do i feel stuck..

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shamefulflamingo7 · Answer

dont worry so much dear,i know this phase is very crucial and tough but i know that your sincere efforts will never ever go waste

shamefulflamingo7 · Answer

just study hard and appear for mock tests and try to score better in the mocks. Thats the the only way you can build up your confidence.

whatever · Answer

thank you❤

shamefulflamingo7 · Answer

welcome😊

its__me · Answer

ok im was a neet aspirant too so let me tell u my story.. i was so distracted with my thoughts that i didn't do the hardwork needed to get a decent college. i tried in last few months but it didn't work. my parents expectations were high but i knew where i stand .... the exam got over and i was literally crying in a corner for next 2 weeks ... i had suicidal thoughts and self destructive mindset ... i was full of guilt blaming myself all the time... i had no courage to look at the question paper again i didn't even see my mistakes or anything... but slowly after few months i thought of giving it a retry... fortunately fate took me to somewhere else and im still aspiring to become a doctor.... you are so courageous and lucky that you got out of this so brave and are ready to try again.... leave no stones unturned this time ... u can do this

LonerandDown · Answer

look mate often we believe these entrance exams are our only hope, but that is not the case, firstly have a backup plan, and a backup for the backup plan, when you plan well, you can assure your parents that you aren't being whimsical. working towards something hones a person mentally and emotionally, it's a gud thing to do but preparations cost a lot that might be what would be troubling yo parents if that is the case look for cheaper tution with individual subject teacher and join a mock test series. if that's not it then the planning itself would work

LonerandDown · Answer

also you know yourself better than anyone, be critical of yo own actions and trust in what you divine.

whatever · Answer

yes i have back up plans but i dont want to give up without trying, thanks u all...i will be constructively working towards my goal

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