can you please calm down and explain all things? what happened?
DeadTree
what- why and about what??
clarke34
my family member surfaces fake things in such a genuine way to others that i start to believe that the things he says to me is right but my gut feeling says something else i dont know which one is right
clarke34
he makes such imaginary things about me that i m getting crazy or im too sensitive please help
clarke34
anyone please im going crazy or what
DeadTree
what happened?? he spread rumours???
DeadTree
please chill nd take long breaths
DeadTree
uh this application doesn't give notifications on time
DeadTree
are you okay? please chill nd let's talk have some peace in mind and stay strong
clarke34
i just keep waiting for others approval even when inside knowing im right but still couldnt believe myself
DeadTree
it happens, have confidence nd stay strong
DeadTree
don't get down easily,
clarke34
yess he talks shit behind me
DeadTree
who is it??
clarke34
😭😭😭
DeadTree
ur not ok in telling? then any hint?
DeadTree
i don't wanna ruin ur privacy-
alertchile0
bro people can manipulate you if you let them. understand yourself and then people opinion will not matter.
clarke34
how can i believe my feelings
clarke34
how can i respect someone who doesnt give a damn about me
clarke34
i need hatred in myself
alertchile0
how can you not? you need to understand your current state of mind ...why is it with me...do I want to change, things like that. you will know what's is that you want
alertchile0
And then people say whatever they want to, you don't always have to mind them
clarke34
should i repress cold war from that person or get defensive
alertchile0
express whatever you can. repressing will not help anybody but expressing everything might also be not appropriate
clarke34
alerchile can you suggest me some tactics to keep cool during faceoff against manipulative behaviour
clarke34
like if he s jealous or envy type
alertchile0
ooo that is so much fun sometimes if people are jealous of you
alertchile0
they are jealous because they most probably want to be like you
clarke34
you look pretty strong minded person
clarke34
now i envy your strong mindset😆
clarke34
😀
alertchile0
😂😂😂
clarke34
i think its mind games that is bothering me rightt
clarke34
@alertchile
alertchile0
I think why are being bothered is because you have not figured out what is true and what is not. If people are saying something about you, and if you know if they are right or just blabbering it won't be a that big problem. And any problem can always be solved.
