become selfish

Same happened to me with my best friend and sister ... Never mind be a little selfish ..n don't get involved when next time they need help.

Trying but it's like i am suffering and my friend is just chilling , it's frustating

i agree with jain88... you have to become selfish cause she will take you for granted. You are gonna be labeled as henpecked. you might as well whipe her a** when she goes to the toilet you know what I mean. You don't deserve that and you don't deserve that kind of friendship. you deserve a friend that is going to do the same things for you as you do for them, a friend you can call up in tge middle of night because you can't sleep. don't let yourself be involved with this person cause she is just straight up bitch (sorry for the language)

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okie i am trying and will not give up thanks for motivation ifeelfine24

its jst a matter of time...I also thought I got a friend forever but same thing happened. its kind of like a break up , hard to get over specially when they're that close to ur heart.. I was so dumb I helped her again but later realized its not worth it..

i'm sorry if i came out rude I just don't like that you know. I had a friend and she was like that too. the world revolved around her and at one point I said to myself do you need this in life? she might be your best friend or who ever you can't let her walk on you. it was hard at first because I lost someone really special to me but I wasn't special for her. maybe I was but not as much she was to me. so fuck her. its better to have one loyal friend than a thousand fake ones.

i also decide not to help but i help her everytime but now it's torturing to me

forget her she is past. in future you are the most important person for yourself

its tortuting to you because you don't get back what you give and you have to stay true to you.. so I hope this helped and if it did I'm so happy i could do something for you even if we are miles apart♡

i called her again and tried to sort things out cuz I was so scared I'm gonna loose someone that means a lot to me but there's this thing self esteem , we shouldn't sacrifice it for anyone..I learned my lesson ..it still hurts when friends become strangers

It helped

@someone_u_kw it hurts yes but don't you think it hurts more that that friend you have doesn't give a crap about how you feel but only how she feels? don't call just ignore she will need you way before youll need her and when that moment comes you will have the power to sai fuck you help yourself now I'm not you bitch bitch haha

yess it hurts everytime when your expectations are trashed. But its ok sometimes and torturing sometimes. Thanks everyone for motivation

you are welcome. happy to be here for you. too bad you can't message anyone but if you need any help just say it

i can feel you what you've gone through I've have face this situation too. but take this as a lesson atleast you get to know how people are in this world just don't expect any thing from any one accept your family your parents

sme happened with me. don't mind this. just avoid these type of people. eventually they will come back