I don't understand why but the more i care about my friends the more they don't give a fuck about me

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I don't understand why but the more i care about my friends the more they don't give a fuck about me

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

coz the world is like this             if u are always available for anyone ,they will not value u.this is the reality except it.I have been through this trust me, and i am getting punished for always giving care to my friend

sana_ · Answer

I think you should care for the ultimate friend of yours first before you do for others...I mean a friend who is always with you and never make you alone...it's always with you since birth it's just you didn't notice or realize...I want to remind you that friend...it's 'YOU' my dear....you are your first friend...if you care for your other friends then why don't you care about you...you can always trust and depend on yourself and it will never be disappointment ...believe me...take care😊

gyu · Answer

I kind of relate...I am assuming that maybe it is because we comfort them so much that they think that the advice we give to others are what we practice ourselves and so they do not really find the need to do the same. They also have a completely different lifestyle (in my case), I always seem like I am free, when in reality it is just me putting my priorities for them ahead. And this maybe something they won't do for me. Not everyone is the same, yet I still want to meet someone who'll be as active in our friendship as I am. Just be happy with who you are and enjoy the moment.

Zanyocean · Answer

Maybe your just not with the right group of friends. I use to have friends like that, but now a days I have a small group of friends and we all look out for each other, we are network as a whole whenever one of us needs help and our private affairs confided to one another stays private, whenever one of us needs advice we give our views on the subject, or our opinion because advising someone isn't our place,we let each other make our own decisions that way nothing gets blamed on anyone. Those are the kinds of friends you can rely on. Who genuinely care.

FrenzyPants · Answer

there will come a point in life, where friendships just feel like a chore and their presence won't matter. we learn as we go through life. in this case, if they give you the bare minimum - reciprocate the same way.

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