main deeply kyu sochta hoon har bare mein

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brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

Jab hadd par ho jayega na tension leni ki , uske baad insaan khud he cool ban jata hain.

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

Ek time aisa ayega. kuch matter he nhi karega tumhare lie.  jab tumhe pata chal jayega ki hum hamesha k lie nhi h is dunia m.

clarke34 · Answer

muje dusro ki khud se kahin zyada fikar rehti hai aur sochta hun inko kon sambhale

cruelCordial1 · Answer

its overthinking i think

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

bhagwan pe bharosa rakhna sikho

cruelCordial1 · Answer

zyada sochne ki zaroorat ni h har cheez ke baare m vaise bhi kisiko farq ni padta

clarke34 · Answer

kaash koi mere dimag se tension lene ki aadat nikal de

cruelCordial1 · Answer

just meditate na vo kaam karega

clarke34 · Answer

zyada pareshani tab hoti hai jab koi mera mazak udata hai

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well do you know kyu udata h??

clarke34 · Answer

kyuki main zyada baat nhi karta kisi se bhi

cruelCordial1 · Answer

same here but iss baat pr dukhi ni hona chahie

cruelCordial1 · Answer

kyuki mujhe bhi iss baat pr sunna padta h ki mai kam bolti hu 😅

cruelCordial1 · Answer

ab toh aadat h so farq ni padta kyuki tumhara goal tumhare bolne ki speed pr depend ni krta

clarke34 · Answer

mujhe sharam aati hai khulke baat karne mein kahin koi dhokha na ho jaaye

cruelCordial1 · Answer

dhokha kiss baat ka well don't think ki kisiko koi bhi farq padega tumhari baato ka just khulke baat kro

clarke34 · Answer

har koi samajhta hai ki mai akdu hoon main aisa hoon vaisa hoon o my god

cruelCordial1 · Answer

😅😅same here merko bhi yahi kehte h kyuki m kam bolti hu

cruelCordial1 · Answer

bolte h mujhme bhut attitude h but m ni dikhati attitude trust me 🙂

clarke34 · Answer

jo aaye judge karke mere samne haans ke aur do baatein chubhne wali kehke chala jaata hai

cruelCordial1 · Answer

kya kehte h vo

clarke34 · Answer

koi mere hairtystle pe koi mereko galat naam deke jaise kaise baataon

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well naam kya h tumhara??

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well tumhe dhyan ni dena chahie

cruelCordial1 · Answer

ya fir ek baad unko tum bhi javab de do accha wala wo dobara judge ni krenge

clarke34 · Answer

mujge darpok koi shareef koi bechara bolke apna kaam jabaran gusse se kehta hai aur aagey se muje samaj nhi aata kaise agle ko jawab doon

clarke34 · Answer

main khud ye note kiya hai ki agla banda jab main uske kahe naa baat manu to wo mereko darpok ya kaho ki manipulate is tarah karta hai ki main naa nhi bol pata

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well mujhe lgta h ki vo log bhi utne khaas nhi ho honge lekin agar koi jabardasti kaam krwata h tumse toh na bolne ki aadat dalo aainda koi kuch ni kahega karne ko

cruelCordial1 · Answer

kya kehta h vo

clarke34 · Answer

kya main khulkar bta skata hoon apko

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well yes

clarke34 · Answer

muje dar lag rha hai.

cruelCordial1 · Answer

yaha sab ek doosre ki baat hi sunne aae h aur unhe solutions dene yaha koi judge ni krta so tum khulkr bol skte ho

cruelCordial1 · Answer

now tell me kya bola unhone??

clarke34 · Answer

mere 3 friend s they unki wajah se mera confidence itna low hua ,wo na hota yeh tha ki main jyada baat shuru se nhi karta tha sirf apne kam mein focous rehta tha sab thik ta mazak sab kuch wo mereko kehte they ja us ladki se jakar baat kar ja usko jaake gaali de ja yeh kar wo kar jab main mana karta tha to woh mereko darpok darpok kehte they aur lagatar tang karte they, wo kehte they ,arey tu to baat bhi ni kar sakta tu to darpok hain aur gande gande mazak banate they mere muje rona aa rh ahi

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well aise dost toh toxic hi h just stay away from them agar wo aisa krte h toh aur you are not darpok vo log h cause vo khud toh kuch krr ni rahe tumhe bol rhe just think about it ki ab kon darpok h vo ya tum?

clarke34 · Answer

muje rona a rha hai yeh sab batakar

cruelCordial1 · Answer

kyu just chill aage aise bhut log milenge so apne aap ko majboot karna padta h

cruelCordial1 · Answer

mere bhi dost the well vo bhi mera mazaak udate the but ab jb mai kuch react hi ni krti unki baato pr toh vo bhi chup hi rhte h kuch ni bolte mujhe

cruelCordial1 · Answer

so unki baato pr react hi mt kro aur unhe ignore kro that's it

clarke34 · Answer

ap se main puchta hoon agar meri jagah aap hote toh kya karte

cruelCordial1 · Answer

mai toh ignore marti

clarke34 · Answer

agar ap unke saath bethi hoon aur ek class ho tabh bhi ap ignore kar pati

clarke34 · Answer

pata nhi maine sab kuch kaise bata diya aapko

cruelCordial1 · Answer

kyuki mere sath bhi hua h

clarke34 · Answer

kya main itna bura hoon

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well ni pr just react ni krti unki baat pr so vo khud hi sudhar jaate

clarke34 · Answer

ki main baat nhi karta zyada

cruelCordial1 · Answer

you are not bad just tumne apna mindset vaisa bana liya h aur logo se miloge na tb pta chalega ki tum bure ni ho

clarke34 · Answer

ap mereko baatao ki suppose mere phone mein jo maine contacts save kiye hain unka phone aata hai toh main bina dar utha leta hoon magar koi unknown chahe ladki ho ya ladka main darta hoon baat karne se aakhir kyu

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well anxiety hoti h kisibhi stranger se face to face baat krne m

clarke34 · Answer

aur main zyada log dekhke dar jaata hoon

cruelCordial1 · Answer

but agar tum continuously aisi hi normally baat krne ki koshish kroge na kisi bhi stranger se tb ye problem chali jaegi

cruelCordial1 · Answer

same here mai bhi aisi hi hu pr ab shayad yeh darr bhi khtam ho raha h buss zyada se zyada bahr niklo ghar se logo se interact kro sb thik ho jaega

clarke34 · Answer

mene toh social network apps jaise whasapp pe bhi chat karne se ghabrata hoon aur instagram id bhi nhi banayi maine aaj tak

clarke34 · Answer

ap sach batao ki kya apka friend circle zyada bada hai

clarke34 · Answer

aur kya apko jab freinds ki call phone pe aati hai to ap suppose koi jaruri kam kar rhe hote ho toh kya ap wo kaam chodkar akele baith kar baat karte ho ya meri tarah phone uthate nhi baad main missed calls ke bad unko call karte ho

clarke34 · Answer

pls batao

clarke34 · Answer

cruelcordial1 pls batao

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well mere sath bhi yahi hota h mai apna kaam ni chodti baad mai hi call uthati hu ya fir ni uthati pr ab unko aadat so vo kuch ni kehte

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well insta id bnao agar comfortable ho toh verna jb man kare tb bna lo isme stress lene ki zaroorat ni h

clarke34 · Answer

kya main insta id pe real photo ki jaga koi aur photo laga sakta hoon

cruelCordial1 · Answer

aur mere friend circle mai bhi only three friends h zyada baat m krti ni but agar koi aata h baat krne toh kr leti pr friends teen hi h aur ek ghar pr meri best friend h 😅

cruelCordial1 · Answer

hn bilkul lga skte ho mai bhi kbhi apni real photo ni lagai h insta pr

clarke34 · Answer

pls sach bolna 3 friends mere liye to 1 sambhalna mushkil lagta hai

cruelCordial1 · Answer

well thi toh 1 hi phle pr fir hum total three friends h school m aur ghar pr sirf 1 h

clarke34 · Answer

kya main ek baat puch sakta hoon zaruri

cruelCordial1 · Answer

bilkul poocho

clarke34 · Answer

kya wo teeno ladkiyan hain

cruelCordial1 · Answer

yess

Frustrating

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