how can i be a better person and stop being hard on my sweet boyfriend due to my bast trauma?...

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dian · Answer

well girl past is in the past... History may or may not repeat itself...This is how the journey is...Just enjoy the moment whole it lasts...don't push hard on him that he gets tired of if....

lizzogomez · Answer

um i know that but i sort of have trust issues at this point and I'm afraid that I'm pushing him away with that

dian · Answer

your not gonna have a healthy relationship if you bring in the concept of trust....It's love have a little faith...If you push him hard n he feels it's better to part then he is not at fault...Plus cause of this behaviour you might even make him feel low...

lizzogomez · Answer

we are actually engaged and he is the sweetest person and he always accepts me for what I'm and tries to comfort me and hear about my past but in the other hand I keep bringing up his past and shaming him for it.... i feel bad about it

dian · Answer

Then you need to work on it... Everybody have their limits...

obsessedunicorn8 · Answer

accept past trauma and find out what trigger those trauma and freely speak with ur boyfriend that u have trauma and if he is a nice guy he will help u if not hell will leave u try to cuddle him and kiss him this will make thing much easier

EVER BEEN IN LOVE?