I quit my job after more than 2 yrs because ii didn't like the toxic environment and how I was treate, I thought my family understood why I left that job and were supportive of me but now they are kinda forcing me to work at an environment that similar to the one I was at and I don't want too. I can't talk to them about it cause whenever I voice my opinion they always blow it out of proportion and constantly bring it up as a way to remind me of my shortcomings. I don't know what to do. I don't want to work at this new place but I always don't want to be reminded that I always mess up

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I quit my job after more than 2 yrs because ii didn't like the toxic environment and how I was treate, I thought my family understood why I left that job and  were supportive of me but now they are kinda forcing me to work at an environment that similar to the one I was at and I don't want too. I can't talk to them about it cause whenever I voice my opinion they always blow it out of proportion and constantly bring it up as a way to remind me of my shortcomings. I don't know what to do. I don't want to work at this new place but I always don't want to be reminded that I always mess up

Mahmoudkassem · Answer

so what I heard from you that you have stuck with feelings of no need to go for work however not able to quit too with some shadow of your mess up again and again. So my point is like that if you choose only one thing to deal with at the moment what  is suppose to be?

NotSoSunnySunshine · Answer

I already quit the old job, now my family wants me to work where I don't want to and if I don't I'm always gonna be constantly reminded of how I always mess up but if I do, it's gonna mess me up cause that not what I want with my life.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?