nahi I don't think chup chap sun Lena chahiye agar chup chap sun loge to zindagi bhar ka regret rah jayga man me mene Saha hai ye regret to j Don't suggest ki chup chap raho or sun lo
clarke34
so theres luck type thing that involves right
clarke34
in these situations
Pie2202
nahi darr lgega ...bht lgega but khudke liye jo sahi h vo kro ...coz uss pal darr lagega but jab uss cheez s aage bhadoge toh apne upar bht proud feel hga aur vo bht khubsurat ahesaas hai
minidora
main bhi ye sab saha even mujhe lagta hai abhi bhi mera nature wesa hi hai gussa mujhe bhot aata hai par bol nahi pati jaha mujhe bolna chahiye tha
minidora
main bhot sochti thi in sab k bare me last me yahi conclusion nikla ki you should take stand for yourself nobody can do for you
minidora
jab tk tum khud ki qadar nahi kroge koi tumhari qadar nahi krega
clarke34
haan so i think assertiveness thodi bohut honi chahiye jab apke pass dusra chara na ho i think
clarke34
so minidora and pie2202 can you mention any small incident that happened where you didnt back down from that situation that really required your stand
clarke34
because i find tough in these situations to recapture myself
clarke34
u there
Pie2202
I think I've taken stand for myself in a toxic relationship where I was being used and ignored....filal yhi yaad hai ek
Pie2202
to take stand for yourself...talk against your loved one and walk out of that relationship was my stand for myself......to walk out of anyone who isn't good for your mental health
minidora
I don't remember right now and I think have one but I'll make one as soon as possible because even decided that I'll take stand for myself
clarke34
so do have any regrets after that
clarke34
happened
clarke34
are you okay
minidora
you'll have regret if you don't speak
clarke34
so basically this conversation is having conclusion that when you want yourself back you need to cut those so called shackles called emotions right
clarke34
emotional dependence i think
Pie2202
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yes coz apne kabhi apko tutne ni denge aur jo thod rhe hai vo apne hi nahi hai... simple