man i really can't figure out women... I don't know if I'm the dumb one or if she is the confusing one... she gave me my favourite things as my birthday gift, we will like 1 - 4 time talk per week about random shit... she will nag me about my smoking habits and how I don't take care of myself... she will do all of this... but when I ask her to go somewhere with me she will try to cancel it... she showed a date spot but when i told her let's go there she said no it's too costly... like what is going on... i asked her yesterday to go there so I don't want to ask now so that she doesn't think I'm being too pushy but am i reading the situation wrong or what? what should I do?

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outlyingdinosaur6 · Answer

She's investing in you. I just walked out of a relationship day before yesterday because the guy was a jerk, a masturbating addict & confusing af. could never acknowledge these lil things as well. do what she does for u n u will realise how much effort it takes. bt if u have ur head elsewhere then I wish her good luck. sometimes we just want emotional connection. n some people are naturally caring n compassionate. dont do something to hurt her.

outlyingdinosaur6 · Answer

random shite may be random to you. But when its gone u realise there's actually NOBODY who bothered except her.

Kira_X_L · Answer

sweetheart trust me when I say this I am irretrievably in love with her she is perfect in every form... her smile makes me forget every trauma of my life... her voice makes me feel like I can have happiness... all I want is just to hold her be near her be with...

TW/ SH-SUICIDE