do you regret having sex with him ? if no,then there is nothing to be insecure about it . its an important part of life and doesnt matter even if he leaves you
brainyMeerkat1
He will left you. I can bet.
samy013
but i want his love forever
samy013
he promise me he will talk about us to his parents
brainyMeerkat1
At the age of 19 ... Mind is not mature. Anything can happen between you guys because there is big time left in your marriage.
samy013
what should i do now and my parents is not ready for our marriage bcz he is obc
brainyMeerkat1
category doesn't matter if you love each other . But the things is make sure he is not using you .
samy013
i love him he use to cut his hand whenever i am not talking to him
samy013
i can not decide he loves me or fooling me
brainyMeerkat1
What is his age?
samy013
20
brainyMeerkat1
Samy... it's too young age to make sexual relation. High chances are he will leave you ( I may be wrong but i am saying this with my experience) . My intension is not to hurt you. There is time in your marriage because he has to make his future in this time his mindset will change a lot.
samy013
you are right🥺
brainyMeerkat1
in 19s , 20s Boys and girls make sexual relationship easily because it's a new thing to them to experience. They don't think about love. All in their mind is sex. But when they grow old they think about sex but this time including society, money and every aspect.
samy013
can we chat sepratly
brainyMeerkat1
Where?
samy013
i dont know how to use it
happyguy12
samy013 , idk why you are even thinking about marriage in this age. i mean you r just 19 and marriage is quite far away. as i said , until and unless you regret your decission , its absolutely okay . try being in the present moment with him instead of thinking about marriage which is nowhere near
samy013
i want him as my life pratner i love him so mucj i just pray for our realtion🥲
happyguy12
yes i completely understand what u mean. you can try talking to him about this and say how u want him to be with u. there are still many years left and things might and will change , just be always ready to have mutual adjustments and there is a good chance u will end up together
brainyMeerkat1
Love other than parents is so uncertain because people are moody and selfish. So don't make sexual relationship easily if a person really love you he can wait to marry you.
happyguy12
@brainyMeerkat1 ig whatever u r saying is coming from some inner hatred towards someone , am i wrong ?
happyguy12
in that case don't generalize everyone just bcs of that person . she is 19 and matured enough to understand if she wants to keep a sexual relation with someone.
brainyMeerkat1
No it is coming from my life experiences. I know everyone has different life but I have seen many cases. 19 s relationship are not successful. And it is up to your luck if it succeed.
happyguy12
yes that obvious that relationships at this age dont succeed much, it's very rare to see two people who have been together since teenage years finally ending up together
brainyMeerkat1
happyguy12... It's her life. I am no one to set rules for her. Yes she is matured but being an elder I can share what I saw in my life.
troubledtoucan7
you are just 19 physically you are matured but mentally you are still not. I don't know you made a wrong or right decision but if you think he really loves you then he probably not gonna leave you.