in my life the most important thing is him and I don't even have interest in my friends or not even in my male friends. I just begun my new college but in online mode, and my bf is not in my city right now. he shift to another state for further preparation of IIT by taking a drop. I am giving my 100% to support him in his preparation but the thing is sometimes I am fully insecure about him and his new friends. and I get offend on every little things!! I don't know how to control my overthinking????? I don't want to tease him anymore ... how can I be happy on my own and also loving him even he is not able to give me time.

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Moonmin05 · Answer

feeling of insecurity is a normal thing in relationship bt over doing it is not you need to shaare your concern with him so he can assure you and you also have to try to understand and need to do something that makes you happy to take your mind off from these thoughts of insecurity

trustingZebra0 · Answer

he never talks to girls !! but my insecurity is stupid !! its like choti choti baat pr bura LG jata hai. toh how can I rid of this feeling??

Moonmin05 · Answer

there's nothing you can do about it bt it's just that u need u understand and trust him

trustingZebra0 · Answer

yess!! you are right !! so I should stop overthinking about him?

Moonmin05 · Answer

yes u should

trustingZebra0 · Answer

how?? sorry asking you so much questions!! but whenever I try to stop overthink , I start ignoring him which make me more worse!! and also it affect him. it's like i am stopping myself to show my affection!!

Moonmin05 · Answer

it's ok you can ask I'll be happy to help

Moonmin05 · Answer

you don't have to ignore him try to do small gesture of help

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?