have anyone felt like when you get hurt by your closest people, you want them to hurt you more so that it would be easy to hate them than cry over them cause I am tired of crying every night over them

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Moonmin05 · Answer

when someone hurt you it doesn't mean you have to tolerate it till the time u hate them cause we should always keep our self first before anyone else

Moonmin05 · Answer

i agree it hurts sometimes bt you don't have to cry for it u need to talk it through

Cordialbliss · Answer

idk whenever i told someone they say they understand at the moment but the next they forget it or mock me with what i tell its hard for me to now to open up to someone

Moonmin05 · Answer

it happens with me too i also have trust issues bt if you don't try how can u make friends with anyone

Moonmin05 · Answer

if you don't mind I'll be happy to help

Cordialbliss · Answer

I have friends but I don't tell them about this

Cordialbliss · Answer

thank you for listening  though

Moonmin05 · Answer

it's ok I also don't open up to anyone bt sometimes it's ok to talk to a stranger

Cordialbliss · Answer

thankss

Moonmin05 · Answer

sometimes u can't share your thoughts with you friends it's totally fine

Cordialbliss · Answer

it's just I am afraid I will get hurt more or regret if u tell them

Moonmin05 · Answer

let me tell u about me people always rely on me and i also think the same as u bt sometimes it helps to talk it out

Cordialbliss · Answer

I will try to thanks again

Moonmin05 · Answer

happy to help you

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?