my father in law he always shout on me , criticized me , and he even insult me . he always say bad things to my husband.then my husband he do everything what his parents tell him to do..
deep_thinker
inform your parents
enviousquiche7
my husband had an extra marital affair also..i accepted that also but still he doesn't respect me ,protect me
enviousquiche7
i don't know what should I do
farshy756
I suggest you to get out of the marriage because it seems really bad and you are just hurting yourself.
farshy756
do you have children?
enviousquiche7
yes I do . one baby boy
enviousquiche7
it's not that easy for me to get out of this relationship.. I'm stucked
enviousquiche7
sometimes I feel like i should kill myself
enviousquiche7
I tried also but got failed
farshy756
why you cannot get out of this relationship?
enviousquiche7
i cannot go to my parents house as I have one brother who is not married as good match is searching. if I have gone there people will start bad talk about me and my parents..so I cannot go to my parents house..this bloody society criticized women only
farshy756
I understand your situation, is their some other place you can go? like koi friend jisse tum trust kar sakti ho.
enviousquiche7
no
enviousquiche7
i really want to get out of this toxic relationship..i really don't want to see their faces.
farshy756
what's your child's age?
enviousquiche7
my baby is 2 years old
farshy756
will you do anything to get out of this relationship?
androidgamer
:(
enviousquiche7
yess
farshy756
are you an indian?
enviousquiche7
yes
androidgamer
hope u r feeling better
enviousquiche7
a little.not able to talk to my family about this shit.but able to talk to someone about it who is completely stranger is good. . felt better
farshy756
what's your family's financial condition?
farshy756
and can you support yourself by doing a job? are you doing any job right now?
enviousquiche7
my father is a GM of a company. so you can say it is pretty good.but may i know why did you ask?
enviousquiche7
I'm a company secretary but not doing job because my in-laws doesn't like
farshy756
I wanted to check whether theiris any financial problems in your family or not.
enviousquiche7
no not at all
enviousquiche7
i just myself doesn't want them to suffer because of me
enviousquiche7
you know how pathetic is Indian society towards a married women
enviousquiche7
which country you belong?
farshy756
yeah I know what a married women goes through because I am also an indian, but you are not making your family suffer.
farshy756
they will be hurt to find out that you hid this from them.
enviousquiche7
yes I know but I'm waiting for the right time to get out of this.
enviousquiche7
sometimes I feel like i should just break this relationship and should adapt sanyas . would be better somehow
farshy756
what does your brothers marriage had to do with your divorce!
enviousquiche7
you know how is this society is! people would comment upon my parents upbringing.i don't want that .
farshy756
you could also call on the domestic violence helpline number instead of taking sanyas.
enviousquiche7
no i don't want to b in this long process.i just want a mutual divorce.that domestic violence is a long process and bad mouthing to eachother
androidgamer
hmm onto something similar 😌
farshy756
Why don't you ask your husband for the divorce when he is already having an affair and don't Love you?
enviousquiche7
according to him he end that relationship 2 years before but that girl still messages him. he himself showed me. and he told me I ended that relationship.
enviousquiche7
i just don't know what is right or wrong. you know that engeries never lie.from him I feel negative energy. i can feel..one more thing about his relationship he never told from his side.it was me who encountered the relationship.
