since childhood I want my family to care for me and love and for that I do the things they want, I talk to people in a good way by being a good girl and so on .and now I'm so sick of that I feel like I am nowhere feel like I'm invisible..no body, knows the real me even I want to discover my true self. I just don't want to please people anymore. ever I do I never get satisfied. feels heartbroken.

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lordshuk · Answer

Now you are sick of being a good girl?

lordshuk · Answer

if you feel like sending savage replies , you can send it yaa know! See if you find it funny, then may be deep down this is what you want! Communicate with friends, only then you will get to know yourself better since we don't think too much when talk with friends!

lesa · Answer

yes somehow,

lesa · Answer

my friends are occupied.

lordshuk · Answer

That means you don't have anybody with  you speak   being yourself right?

lesa · Answer

yes.

lordshuk · Answer

so tragic! see in iamears if you find anybody good enough to be your friend! I'll be happy for you!

lonelyrabbit05 · Answer

life for yourself and no body else. Even if your parents brought you into this world, this is your life and your happiness and we'll being is first priority. So do what you feel like doing. Trust your intuition and follow your heart. Don't do what someone else wants you to do. Do what will make you happy

lonelyrabbit05 · Answer

This is more of a identity and communication thing, i think... if you don't want to feel invisible, you will have to stand up for yourself and don't take shit from anyone

Recovering_babe · Answer

being compared is the worst! try connecting to your siblings, they must have gone through the same where they were compared to other cousins or friends with better marks. create a trusting environment with your siblings and hopefully it'll make you feel better.

Frustrating

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help me please