are saying this because u r interested in many subjects and can't choose one?
skylar
many reasons... the one u mentioned is one of them, it's gets tiring..
zestyHawk4
what are the other reasons?
skylar
sometimes family doesn't get that, it demotivates u when u urself are battling with urself..., idk how to put into words..
confessiondiary
I get it man you are probably feeling lost
skylar
@confessiondiary -*hugs*, disappointed more or so.. today
zestyHawk4
ur family doesn't understand ur career choice?
skylar
they can't understand me in general, they got issues with everything... always think that I can't make it
zestyHawk4
well this happens to me too.... sometimes my parents think i can't do it, i can't take responsibilities
skylar
so... how do u tackle it?.....my family is toxic too in general.
zestyHawk4
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i always say them the benefits of the thing again and again....but many time they just say no saying that i am still a kid😐
skylar
oh, and that cycle continues and ends up draining us.
zestyHawk4
exactly!!
zestyHawk4
btw are u giving the application for the course?
skylar
I've informed by father, he wasn't really pleased, let's see... how it goes... wbu?
deep_thinker
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hey
deep_thinker
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What course do your parents want you to study?
skylar
bsc nursing from some govt. institute.
deep_thinker
1
what's the profession of your parents?
skylar
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we are from lower middle class family, my grandma is a retired nurse,so is my aunt (both her daughter and my uncle's wife)- that where his inspiration comes from I guess.
deep_thinker
1
do u have siblings?
skylar
1
yeah, I'm kinda oldest one... I got a younger sis, and a cousin, to look out for
deep_thinker
1
What are the reasons given by your parents for stopping you from chasing your dreams
skylar
1
they don't want me to take drop, they fear that what if I don't get into some decent college next yr... after seeing my performance in both boards and entrances, they are more skeptical and disappointed... I guess. but what I don't get is that - how on earth did they expect me too crack these - mains / neet without any preparation or guidance !
skylar
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they also believe that I'm too ambitious - kinda unrealistic for them. I don't think they believe that I'm capable enough I guess.
deep_thinker
1
Why don't you go to coaching center to prepare for NEET/JEE
skylar
I would've joined in 11th itself, if things went the way I wanted to. neither they were interested then, nor they are interested today.....
deep_thinker
How's the current financial situation in your home?
skylar
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it's same as usual... I guess. my father is more into saving. he believes spending in coaching will be waste, he would rather spend the same in some college.
deep_thinker
If your parents give you one more chance, do you have complete confidence that you can achieve it?
skylar
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yeap, I would surely get into something!
deep_thinker
1
seriously talk about your parents to giving you one more chance, if they given a chance, you must assure them that you will not waste it and also tell them you need a coaching support, and if you fail in this, you must promise them that you will obey as they say.
deep_thinker
1
You should think about way to convince your parents
deep_thinker
1
Try to find a way using all your intelligence
zestyHawk4
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i convinced my father and he told i can do it....but be careful about doing two degrees at the same time so i said that I'll first see for the first 4 weeks that can i take the knowledge from them...is it easy for me....if yes then I'll continue it
zestyHawk4
1
my parents were also against from me taking a drop by seeing my boards result and my IISER entrance exam
skylar
my family loves to play blame game especially when it comes to me.... I don't think I'm left with that kind of mental stamina to go through something like that. and I refuse to go through something like that again.
zestyHawk4
well my parents too do that sometimes like don't take my words seriously like i tell a thing but they won't listen....ik it's really annoying
