hey dipti I understand your situation to an extent I felt the same as you
Rohan
You are not a loser. I am sure you have many accomplishments.
stressedspringboy
But know that just because you maybe feel like a looser today you will not remain a looser forever
cautiousrat1
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I am going through same issue but we are so hard on ourselves. I think people around us view us as failures because we are seeing ourselves as one. No matter how hard we try without self acceptance nothing can work.
mercifulcurlew1
what is the reason? why u r feeling so....
Rohan
Focus on self respect and self worth. Always Love yourself.
stressedspringboy
Take a deep breath and think of the fun days you had.No one is a loser as you would have contributed to someone somewhere
dipti0
no one is with me after losing my best friend ,i think that no-one can understand me like my family ,my mom i don't know why they can't see that I am sad about something they just don't understand me
stressedspringboy
do you find it hard to make new friends?
Rohan
Your Family understands you. and sometimes the best friends are your Family
humorousicecream1
Don't think that,destiny has planned everything but even when we fail we become more stronger,life is all about decisions we make and our mindset,so be strong and fight, I'm going through same phase whatever I start that ends up with a loss but always be positive and share your emotions with your friends 👍
dipti0
No i have many friends but I am person who does not talk much about their feelings i just want them to understand my feelings i am just feeling suffocated in my home
stressedspringboy
Everyone feels like this sometimes and I do empathize with you
dipti0
family it's just a name there is nothing like family . being with my family I am finding me all alone with my feeling with my stress
stressedspringboy
But you need to find someone to talk to and let out all your emotions
Rohan
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firstly you ain't a loser. you have trouble expressing that doesn't make you a loser. secondly remember you are your own best friend. Sometimes the best person to talk to is urself
stressedspringboy
Sometimes the most necessary conversations cannot happen within families there is nothing wrong with that
stressedspringboy
dipti I am sensing you want someone to have some personal conversation with you but at the same time you need them to be trustworthy
dipti0
Nothing personal: I say that once my mother comes and asks me if something has happened, but she thinks everything is fine: Looks like this I am burden on my mom, papa .
humorousicecream1
can we be friends??
Rohan
You are not a burden.
stressedspringboy
Dipti I know for a fact that sometimes I am a burden on my parents but the good part is that they are excited to see my future growth do something productive join some classes online or offline which will help you in your professional career
stressedspringboy
After I did the same I have more confidence and am beginning to enjoy life once again
stressedspringboy
Show them that you can grow as a person and they will be happy
stressedspringboy
Life is too exciting and rewarding when you stop thinking of yourself as loser