what do you mean by disappeared?

she left me she stopped talking to me all of a sudden

okay. if she talks to u again, u can ask her why she had stopped talking in the first place. if u believe her reasons r valid enough then u can base ur decisions on them. u r the best person to make who stays in ur life and who doesn't.

Do you really want someone so heartless and cold in your life? What would your father say? I'm sure he would want you to be happy and loved, and her actions do not make you feel happy and they don't make you feel loved. Realise your worth, realise you will be fine without her, you can grieve without her and you can find someone better who will love you and stand by you through good and bad. That's the woman you want to marry one day, not someone who abandons you in your times of need. Realise your worth and realise that you are better than her. Good luck.

if she's not with you in your worse then she don't have any right to be with you