It's hard for me. He is my next door neighbour. I see and hear him everyday and it breaks my heart
ardentdunbird8
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It's better for us to love our God and talk to him about our pains . And focous and love our purpose of life not people as there our mostly selfish. Try to make other happy.
excitedTomatoe7
I agree with you. Struggling to do that
ardentdunbird8
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God is the only one who deserves our attention and time. The best friend every. These pains come to teaches us . Try to pratice and think and more about God. And excuse him to be our friend. May God bless you and give you peace
Pryeing
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I believe people love every person differently. If you try to find him in every person you meet then you are not giving yourself a chance to fall for the new person. You may or may not find someone who will love you more than he did but you will definitely find someone who will love you the best that they can. It will be different because everyone is different. If you allow yourself to love then you'll notice that you'll also love this new person in a different way. Please don't lose faith.
excitedTomatoe7
@preying- thanks a lot. But he is my next door neighbour which is making moving on slightly harder. Any suggestions on that?
Pryeing
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I'd say you have to accept that it is over completely. If you have any hope of getting back together then it will make moving on nuch harder. Also, don't go out of your way to avoid him. that will make you think about him 24/7 especially if you have to go a little outside your house. I wouldn't suggest trying to meet new people immediately too. Learn to be happy by yourself. Pick up a new hobby and keep yourself busy. I'll pray for you to move on soon.
excitedTomatoe7
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Thanks a lot. Your words mean a lot during times of distress.
excitedTomatoe7
@itsmehere- thanks a lot. I'm trying my level best. Not much progress as I tend to get lonely, but the fight is ON! Thanks for your words, means a lot 💜
excitedTomatoe7
@ardentdunbird8- I agree with you. Thanks a lot. It's pointless to trust humans when we have god to talk to!