shall I speak with someone else now?...

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perceus12galactus · Answer

I'm here

perceus12galactus · Answer

u can talk to me bro

Golda · Answer

how can I have word with you?

Golda · Answer

i mean through this chat or any platform ?

perceus12galactus · Answer

where u will be comfortable?

Golda · Answer

anything it's okay just for a councelling

perceus12galactus · Answer

are u okay with sharing ur problems here?

Golda · Answer

Well.. nope i feel not okay

perceus12galactus · Answer

so which platform u r comfortable

perceus12galactus · Answer

u can reach there again if u want to

Golda · Answer

do you have like anything telegram or just an email id anything else

perceus12galactus · Answer

Golda · Answer

okay

perceus12galactus · Answer

@Satyajit_gaya_momos_khane

Golda · Answer

it's okay I'll tell my issues here but it was my personal thing

perceus12galactus · Answer

Okay

perceus12galactus · Answer

I'm here say

Golda · Answer

i did a mistake that I had a guy friend i love him most with 10 years but I didn't talk with him that much so after a long time I talk with him once so just like you know that excited me and I am sharing my every memories with him

perceus12galactus · Answer

And then

Golda · Answer

but laterly i told him whatever the thing I have made in my life like my past relationships and all the thing I've shared with him coz my depression nd i didn't shared anyone about it

Golda · Answer

i thought like he will save me and support me

Golda · Answer

but he didn't actually... i was overwhelming and blabbering too much about it with him so he started doubting on my self hurt me most with his words

Golda · Answer

actually I didn't do anything wrong in my life but the particular time period i feel like everything is my mistake nd I'm the reason for everything

Golda · Answer

so I blabbering with him like everything wrong thing is my side

Golda · Answer

he was misunderstood me nd hating with his hurtful words and he left me that makes me feel really broken 💔 i till couldn't over come with that

Golda · Answer

then I did a mistake that I chased him nd tried to explaining myself coz that's more nd most painful thing on that time (10 years friend he didn't believe me)

perceus12galactus · Answer

It is normal...I would say...something would have happened in his life which made him to doubt on u....if u think u r fine by ur ethics then it's a good thing

Golda · Answer

so now I forgot whatever he hurts me nd i started to talk with him nicely

perceus12galactus · Answer

I see...that might hurt u more....bad times come in our life...people come people leave....ik what hurt u was 10 yrs friend and he didn't listen to me

perceus12galactus · Answer

That's a good thing u have done...I would say u not to talk of the fight u had and the related topics

perceus12galactus · Answer

He needs a bit of time to heal and understand u ......it hurts ik...but he needs to understand u more...

perceus12galactus · Answer

So spend some handful time with him...

Golda · Answer

but he said like i don't want to talk with you coz of your behaviour you are chasing me in too much of  messages, you have created plenty profiles in Instagram to talk to me whatever you did i didn't forget i hate your behaviour so i wants to Stop to talking with you i feel it's too wrong he said like this

perceus12galactus · Answer

It takes time...but it gonna be alright.....and u alone isn't less ....u r enough to fight any problems in ur life but depression makes it harder.....but the key is ....don't think about things that has hurt u...because the more u get stressed by past the more u give depression an opportunity to harm u

perceus12galactus · Answer

Then uk.....keep friendship but uk don't rely on him too much for now...make new friends....start Journaling....u will find a person to talk about ur secrets

Golda · Answer

yeah as like u said I've been trying to talk with him generally but he didn't allow me to talk what will I do

perceus12galactus · Answer

I would say...make more friends to fill the gap created by him and keep urself a bit busy

Golda · Answer

okay

Golda · Answer

but I couldn't make good friendship i feel insecure to trust someone again

perceus12galactus · Answer

😊if he wants he will talk with u...but don't lose the contact...u can talk with him when u want to....forgetting what he said u before....

Golda · Answer

but he said like he doesn't have trust to talk with me

perceus12galactus · Answer

Does that mean....he can't talk with u about studies ??

Golda · Answer

I'm sorry..i didn't get you what you are saying

Golda · Answer

he wants to endup

Golda · Answer

he hated me a lot

perceus12galactus · Answer

Then u should maintain a bit of distance....uk u can hurt urself

Golda · Answer

okay

Golda · Answer

Thank you

perceus12galactus · Answer

Welcome

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