hey everyone how ya doin today? i feel rreally heavy, i came back from a trip with my friends and it was a nightmare, i have social anxiety and they were not trying to understand my problem instead blaming me for being a bitch and ruining everyone's moods and one of them even said that you are not the girl who used to be my friend i don't like this version of you and that i was being fake and said everytime she meets me her mood gets worse and these are the only 2 friends that i have.... and am pretty sure they're about to leave me and i am genuinely lonely now like literally not a single more friend i feel like crying all day and everyday... i can't even talk to my friends about it

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shivang · Answer

just 2 friends and they also leaving you in your hard time, pretty bad situation

winterpanda · Answer

these are your friends.... why they are not understanding your problem.

shivang · Answer

you are not problem they are the problem

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

yes even if they are the problem, they are the only friends i have i don't know where i should go anymore it's frustrating sitting in my house all evenings when people my age are living their best life

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

@winterpanda i don't know, i was the mutual friend still they both team up against me

shivang · Answer

If I were you instead of thinking about my problematic friends, I will do what really I want

shivang · Answer

live my life at fullest instead of just thinking

winterpanda · Answer

I understand @lyingunicorn2 ..... sometimes you just wanted to be around friends... like other same aged people do................ but please, it's also important.. the quality of friends you are having.

winterpanda · Answer

yes surely friends will laugh at you, mock you but a good friend will help you in every situation obviously (after laughing at you).... friends will laugh at you but they'll also understand your problem. and if they don't, then they are not your true friends

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

@shivang @winterpanda yeah i know and i do try and i am learning how to have fun alone but it really is almost impossible to do normal things that young adults do without any friends ... i cannot find any other way to socialize or make friends i get so much anxiety around new people my hands start to shake

shivang · Answer

what's your age

winterpanda · Answer

I have same issues.... so I know what you are facing......... but being in a shell.. will never help us, you should try to make new friends....... I know it's really hard for you (me also)... but there is no harm in trying... right?! ☺️

shivang · Answer

I can be your new friend 😜

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

@shivang am 17 and thank you sure we can be friends but u know it's not the same as real life friends :/

shivang · Answer

atleast it's better than nothing

shivang · Answer

it's better than being alone

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

@winterpanda yeah am so sorry to hear that i hope you too get through this :) but it's really hard i wouldn't know where to start where to go to make new friends

shivang · Answer

i share my whatsapp number with you if you like

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

@shivang thank you that's  really sweet of youu but i have a few online friends what i wanted was some real friends u know but still ur thought is appreciated :)

shivang · Answer

well ok

shivang · Answer

So where are you from

winterpanda · Answer

we can't compare virtual friends... to real ones

winterpanda · Answer

but if you want any more.... virtual friend...... then you can contact me☺️

shivang · Answer

time is changing, we should get the genuine support as much as we can

shivang · Answer

text, video calls and if things work fine then we can meet even in real

winterpanda · Answer

tell me everyone.... which city you are from ?..... then we'll decide to meet🤣🤣🤣

shivang · Answer

haaaa

shivang · Answer

Delhi

shivang · Answer

you??

shivang · Answer

I mean you two

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

thank you so much y'all ur both sweet i am from Chandigarh that's kinda far haha

winterpanda · Answer

Lucknow

winterpanda · Answer

we are living as far as possible 🤣

shivang · Answer

not too far for me, I can visit you both when I have enough money for that

winterpanda · Answer

age please...? everyone 🤣.... let's see how young are we

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

yess haha am 17

shivang · Answer

I guess I am biggest here, 22

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

shivang will be broke then if they come to meet both of us :p

shivang · Answer

kind of, backup plan ke saath chalte hai hum😎

winterpanda · Answer

I'm 21..... aur Delhi aate next month 🤣

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

whoops so am the youngest i just a babyy :;(∩´﹏`∩);:

shivang · Answer

should we all connect on insta

winterpanda · Answer

it's ok ... you will be 21.... some day, don't worry

lyingunicorn2 · Answer

yeah okay sounds good

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