i get scared of things i have done in my past... really bald things....like i was not in need to do that but because of greed i did it ..nd then i got in trouble... blackmailing nd all...o don't want my parents to know about that.. i don't want my friends to know about that'....this thought scares me that one day that person Will find me ..my identity nd then will black mail me again'for money ..... I can not take that pressure .....it's second time he got to know about me and then he was again threating me i don't want that to happen again and whenever I think of that it scares me...i don't want that he ever finds me anywhere in social media etc ...and the fun thing is i don't even know that person .... where he lives etc ..it's some guy with whom I shared my privacy and he is using me for money black mailing.....i did tried complaint but nothing happened.....i don't want him to reach me ever ....

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i get scared of things i have done in my past... really bald things....like i was not in need to do that but because of greed i did it ..nd then i got in trouble... blackmailing nd all...o don't want my parents to know about that.. i don't want my friends to know about that'....this thought scares me that one day that person Will find me ..my identity nd then will black mail me again'for money ..... I can not take that pressure .....it's second time he got to know about me and then he was again threating me i don't want that to happen again and whenever I think of that it scares me...i don't want that he ever finds me anywhere in social media etc ...and the fun thing is i don't even know that person .... where he lives etc ..it's some guy with  whom I shared my privacy and he is using me for money black mailing.....i did tried complaint but nothing happened.....i don't want him to reach me ever ....

androidgamer · Answer

I personally feel - you need to work on your life especially - interactions, your attachment style-, your needs & wants and plenty more- find yourself - if you are looking for approval or attention that's surely not the right path. probably - just cut the deal with a person for good and let it be and Take and assurity in return - not to blackmail you again....  honestly - I'm sure the issue is more than you can explain here. seel help buddy :)

humorousgatorade3 · Answer

how to find yourself?

androidgamer · Answer

well, sit with your self - with a pen and paper, and do the brain storming, if you cant do it hire good psychologist.

humorousgatorade3 · Answer

i get confuse easily, people manipulate me ...i don't know how to take good decision.... sometimes my actions hurt people and i don't even realise it....i want myself to be matured enough ti see what's happening around me....

androidgamer · Answer

i can feel you, you must somewhere in between of being an young adult that's natural - what you are feeling is ok !  however learn from your experiences trust me there so much to aquire from each moment- I'm sure you must have had alot already, have you spend time thinking about it and what it taught you ?? have you ?

humorousgatorade3 · Answer

yah i learned alot from my mistake but i end up doing mistakes....bad decisions.... regrets

androidgamer · Answer

see buddy, life in reality is bitch indeed - unless you learn from your past mistakes - it will keep on repeating until you learn it now it's upto you you learn it now or wait until u turn 60

alertchile0 · Answer

even if he tells your family or friend what maximum is going to happen?

humorousgatorade3 · Answer

all the maximum thing will happen ....my parents will get hurt ... every one will judge me

hello

Frustrating

help me please