I feel the same, just ignore them and do what you what and as you want i know, it sucks but what we can do is making us that strong that someone's presence doesn't affect us

i have this feeling hard to explain wish i could be able to pit it in words

i started working on myself,then everybody trying to be me,copying me everything am doing like waking up time,talking style,sleeping time almost everything,the thing with me i like being authentic but i dont like people copying me everything

don't depend on others for your happiness. tell to urself that you are self sufficient and ur happiness doesn't depend on anyone else.

advoce on how to care less of what people think

I too used to be really unpopular but the sister of a cool brother, in fact, I even remember a friend who swapped me out for my cooler brother. I tried to ignore it and do some other things, take up new hobbies, I even tried writing and got quite popular there. Like elvisturning56 said, I even had people trying to copy me! I've currently got three guys fighting for my attention because they all think I'm cool and funny, and all of that comes down to being authentically me. Just find you. When you do, you'll find the ones who like you. Good luck.

ive found some people who like me but im going through a distrust phase,am just judging everyone,is like ive built a wall af distrust on my heart

I understand that, I'm not the most trusting person either because of some friends who hurt me. It's okay to be guarded, but try to lower the wall a little bit and let someone a bit closer every now and then. One bad person doesn't mean everybody is bad.

even if you were hurt by both your bestfriend and girlfriend at the same time,?

yes, but it depends how they hurt you. If they cheated then they are not worth you anymore. You are worth and you deserve people who respect you.

coz i carry this hurt to people who didnt hurt me,and is not deliberate but they dont understand,i decided to hide my nice side no emotions just an angry face and a really sad one,sometimea i wish someone could understand but i dont wanna live like this any more

It's a defence mechanism. Try to forgive those who hurt you, the more you hold onto that hurt, the more only you will suffer in the end. New people are not your friend or your girlfriend, so try and see them that way. Life is unfortunately full of heartache, but if someone causes you too much stress then you can just say thanks but no thanks and more on

move on*

Damnn i felt that,will always emember this

No problem, happy to offer some insight 😊

i will be here for you also 💯

thankyou, that is very kind of you

i would also like to imagine you smiling like youve made me SIMILE

I try to. Everybody has bad days and that's okay 😊

your so great for lifting others up,,, only the kings and queens can do that... but still, this means you can loft yourself higher than anyone. pave your way to greatness as the king/queen

excitedrhino4 thankyou. Unfortunately I know how it is to suffer because I have suffered too. I dedicate myself to helping others now, because nobody should feel alone as I once did. Take care of yourself and be well.