hey guiltystork can i share my issue clearly to you
guiltystork0
ofcourse go ahead
clarke34
im overwhelmed by thinking that i just made a mistake today by sharing my emotions to a girl and im again pissed off thinking that oh shit i just spilled myself
clarke34
heyy im really frustated by myself right now and if i didnt spill my problem i may loose my sanity
clarke34
heyπππππ
guiltystork0
what emotions you share with her .i mean you like her or something like
guiltystork0
calm down first
guiltystork0
and share with me what ever happened
clarke34
i have a problem of locking my secrets to myself and out of pleasing someone i didnt knew that thinking practically is necesaary because im really very sensitive person who gets cracked up easily
guiltystork0
can you tell me clearly please so that I can help you
clarke34
i just shared my real myself with her and i seem that she liked it but i loose my secret
clarke34
i have some hobbies thst only i like and i feel very vulnersble when i share myself and out of that i shared one of my hobby
clarke34
heyy bro u there
clarke34
π°π°
guiltystork0
so what if you loose your secret . it's ok as far as you trust her
guiltystork0
yes I'm here btw I'm a girl
guiltystork0
do you trust that person
guiltystork0
it's a very good thing that you showed her your real self there is nothing to feel bad about
clarke34
its fine i just want to say that is there any way i can control my emotional intensity because many dont know i get hurt really quickly and
guiltystork0
firstly don't control your emotions it will hurt you ever more just let your emotions how it's been
clarke34
hey r u theere
clarke34
sorry im deeply feeling myself right nowππ
clarke34
heyyπππ
farshy756
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hey @clark, I know you have anxiety around people and it's really difficult for you to share about yourself with others, but look at the positive side you were able to share your hobbies with someone which is a great start.
guiltystork0
i can understand that you get hurt easily . you can do one thing when ever you'll hurt by any one just go and directly told them that your hurt
guiltystork0
I'm here
guiltystork0
ohh does he have anxiety
clarke34
hii farshy what shoul i do to shut this thought so can i have some peace
clarke34
sorry i just cried and now trying to stop crying
guiltystork0
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stop crying
guiltystork0
why are you so hard on your self man
farshy756
just ignore it, I know it's night and it's difficult for you to ignore this thought, focus on something else. @clark it's totally okay to cry when feeling overwhelmed.
farshy756
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@clark remember your thoughts and feelings play a big role in your life but you have the choice to accept certain thoughts and ignore others, it will be difficult at first but getting better was never easy in the first place, you have to let go of the fake mask of happiness your wearing, you have to accept that you're hurt.
clarke34
okay i will try not to stop my internal burst of emotions and practice to let out them and i really appreciated your help thanks
clarke34
@farshy
farshy756
anytime π@clark
guiltystork0
anytime π and please don't be so hard on your self let your emotions flow ok.