I stopped assuming that I am everyone's friend, but I never stopped treating them as a friend. Even though I never become part of their memories: their pictures and hangouts, I still see them as friends. I am aware that its turning into toxic, but I can't get rid of it. Am I doing the right thing?

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cenalav · Answer

You need to learn to let go of some friendships. Do not be afraid to be alone, nor to spend more time with yourself. Dont hate them. But you have to build new friends with new people.

bubblydingo7 · Answer

I won't say that you're doing anything wrong but just start putting yourself first like who is the most important person in your life? The answer should always be you.

that_one_in_the_corner · Answer

Its easy to find new friends in some country. But here in my country, its not easy. Most people I've encountered here only considers you a friend if you change yourself into the image that they want to see.

bubblydingo7 · Answer

You know I feel ya i was in the same situation some time ago but what's most important is mental peace and being someone you're not just to have some friends isn't worth it. Real friends will like you for you and you'll find them soon it's a long life 😊

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