listen... first of all w no body is NOTHING.... every one has something ok........ and 20.. y. o. is not the age to earn...... it's the age for studing
aayushi20
idk. my family makes me feel unwanted and it's so chaotic here. i feel like I'm packed. can't breath here. they need me to do something , I'm not good daughter, sister or a human. idk.
deaddaisiesp1
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hey i feel the same sometimes but all you need to know there's no right age for earning I'm 18 and i won't be earning until I'm 23 coz Thts when my degree ends even after that upto 3 yrs I won't make much but u need to believe in yourself. Pursue whatever you're doing with passion so u won't regret anything in the end. people will make u feel like shit society do be like that. remember u can silent them only with success
JiteshDoe
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I feel you man, I feel like sich a loser. I try to help my people but I end up troubling them. But, now I try to be more positive even in the most grim situation.
aayushi20
idk why I'm not good enough. I'm trying my best each and every day.
winterpanda
1
having same situation here also.... 🥺but... in this age... you should study no matter what..... everything comes with their own time obviously there are some exceptions but don't try to think too much
Ani123
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Hey, don't be so hard on yourself.I also feel the same at times.I can understand your pain.Your mother has told you to work because she cares about you , your future. She doesn't want you too feel any less when you get married to a man. Not because you are a burden.Keep on trying. Eventually you will get on something of your liking.Then see you will also feel so happy.This phase will pass.You can trust me in this.
winterpanda
1
everyone is good enough so don't think you don't have anything good you just need to wait and find out in which area/situations you are good....
abc234
1
yes it is happening with me all timez
deaddaisiesp1
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that's what makes u good enough Aayushi. the fact that u try ur best. coz nothing is good enough. u need to find satisfaction in what u do. a person makes 100 rupees a day while the other makes 1000.this doesn't make the first person inferior coz they did their best and were satisfied with it. whereas if the one making 1000 greeds for more, it's not good enough for them.
JiteshDoe
2
you have a purpose, everyone does. You just need time, you need to work at your own pace. Everyone's different
winterpanda
2
please don't think about earning.... you will and when the time is correct because without proper education you can't earn well... okay. so invest your time in studies and ignore anything negative around you & just focus on building your future.
JiteshDoe
1
You just need to keep grinding.
aayushi20
1
i feel like jumping off my clif. it's so exhausted out here.
aayushi20
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what shall i do
winterpanda
1
first of all calm down and take a short break from your life and think about your future & mental health..... don't let any negative effect you 🥺
JiteshDoe
1
Don't rush things man. You can be so much. Study and work to get out of that shithole.
aayushi20
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thankyou everybody. i love you
deaddaisiesp1
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@aayushi20 I've been at my lowest point in life tbh. abusive parent, childhood trauma, inferiority complex, racism, harrasment and what not. I always felt like ending it. I want u to know that others are not worth it. might sound bad but even ur parents are not worth ur life. ur life is so precious ud feel it one day looking back at urself. 20 is such a young age. don't waste it on others opinion about u and start creating positive opinions about urself in ur head
deaddaisiesp1
try journaling ur thoughts out. it's very therapeutic