I know bro you need a girl and your mom isn't allowing you

hey

hii farshy

this is it im telling the major reason for my internal trouble

what emotional trouble your mother created?

that's great to see that you can finally share yourself with others.

when she wants something to be done according to her and even its unjustified i have to agree with her basically she acts as if she is not listening to me but actually she is and she just keep silence and suddenly twists the matter into someting else and start cold fight i just cant figure out why i cant refuse to her

you know even its a small matter she just inflame into aomething big and the ones listening cant judge whether she should be guilty or i am the one to be punished errr

she starts stop talking for days farshy 😣😣

I can guarantee you that you are not at fault.

absolutely how can i stop bothering the thought that what if she again does that cold war type with me i have to consider this thing before the start of every argument

heyy u there

yeah, I am trying to think of a practical solution.

i know u maybe thinking that this is something serious but i am ready for solution

when do you think you can move out?

of??

you're house.

you mean to say hostel or pg type something

yeah

i need some time to think about it

sure take your time

hey do you live with your parents

yeah

if you dont mind can i ask whether they are supportive to you

okay dont mind i was just worried regarding this concern

well se ya🙂

my parents are sort of irresponsible and overly possessive over me.

i mean in a postive way??

you r so lucky to have lovely parents.. ☺

they don't let me go anywhere and sometimes forget to fulfill my needs, they still forget.

you can avoid having unnecessary conversations with your mother and stop trying to prove a point when she is framing you bad, instead when she has calmed down, tell her what you want to say, and be confident when you speak your mind, when she tries to guilt trip you, don't give in to her demands and say sorry for nothing, instead just let her say whenever she wants to say, and don't speak anything to justify yourself when you know you're right, no matter what happens don't apologise till your analytically wrong, not because you're guilty because of your anxiety. and try to have less conversations with her, I am not telling you to stop talking to her, just minimise conversations with her and I know you will feel guilty for putting yourself first because the anxiety and self doubt monsters in your mind won't shut up for once.

you really have good approach in this thing i will then try to apply these points you mentioned i hope to get going 🤔

again thanks farshy have good night☺

anytime 😊@clark, good night to you too.