So i have a bestfriend only one who is lately ignoring me and beung rude but i bet she is not rude to her other friend i just feel like she is more than me to my bestfriend.. I dont have any friends i have still they cannot be trusted.. She shows that she hates whoever i am with out of jealousiness and i get insecure about myself and i have a very low self esteem that when my sister complemented me i am like stop lying... Sometimes i feel like is she using me becuz she tells her problems and doesnt listen to mine.. Idk i am so stuck about her matter and i also feel good sometimes with her its something like soulmate i have something in my mind and she says it not by coincidence and all but like all the time. Generally bestfriends are similar but we are opposites.. People say that friends are similar and lovers are opposites. But here we are bestfriends because of our choices are veryy different.. I like something she hates it.. what do you think abiut her any advice?

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So i have a bestfriend only one who is lately ignoring me and beung rude but i bet she is not rude to her other friend i just feel like she is more than me to my bestfriend..  I dont have any friends i have still they cannot be trusted.. She shows that she hates whoever i am with out of jealousiness  and i get insecure about myself and i have a very low self esteem that when my sister complemented me i am like stop lying... Sometimes i feel like is she using me becuz she tells her problems and doesnt listen to mine.. Idk i am so stuck about her matter and i also feel good sometimes with her its something like soulmate i have something in my mind and she says it not by coincidence and all but like all the time.  Generally bestfriends are similar but we are opposites.. People say that friends are similar and lovers are opposites. But here we are bestfriends because of our choices are veryy different.. I like something she hates it.. what do you think abiut her any advice?

peskyswift4 · Answer

Have you ever told her about these thoughts and how it makes u feel that she isn't respecting the boundaries u have between each other. How does she behave when she is around you

Anwita · Answer

yes i told her about them she is an extroverted person so seh keeps talking and talking she talks about her friend who she is obssessed with and while talking about her she forgets me idk i feel so jealous but i never admit it becuz they are sort if like ina relationship thing but like friends.. It makes me feel i have no one by my side she never supports me in anything.. :(

peskyswift4 · Answer

if the friend is making u feel emotionally exhausted is making u feel guilty and low and is jealous .If she is using you it's better to leave them as this might get worse in the future. these type of friends will drain you down. you might also have face some bad experiences as time goes by.

peskyswift4 · Answer

while we have to interact with all sorts of people with different personalities we need to be aware about ppl who might drag us down. Try to develop hobbies where you can interact with new ppl who will be respectful to u and will be there when needed

peskyswift4 · Answer

As this person always been like this or she has changed suddenly ?

peskyswift4 · Answer

It's okay to remove yourself/spend less time in this type of relationship you are just protecting your space your identity. it's not wrong to do that.you have to love yourself more than anyone. As time goes by you will meet better ppl than them.You have to set boundaries for people who show don't respect you. Write it down think about it deeply, reflect on them in your mind.

Anwita · Answer

she changed suddenly

Anwita · Answer

she was not like this an year ago

Anwita · Answer

since a month she has changed

peskyswift4 · Answer

do you know why she changed?

Anwita · Answer

yes thankyou

Anwita · Answer

she changed because of her new friend

peskyswift4 · Answer

If your friend has changed a lot after one month of being with that new friend i think it's time for you to start thinking about this friendship. Can she change back when she realises her mistakes.Do u think she will realise it if you suddenly start avoiding her

Anwita · Answer

i think she will try to change for me.. Maybe shell realise it

peskyswift4 · Answer

Because if she can then you can find a solution to stop this. yes it is very difficult to leave a person who has been your best friend for a period of time. And leaving her suddenly after a sudden change might make you feel sad.  if she is treating you really badly where u can no longer take this then you can leave her. You deserve better.

Anwita · Answer

yes got it thankyou

peskyswift4 · Answer

okay take care. It is difficult but fighting 👍. i will support you and hope your friend will change and you guys can be like the way you  used to be. Be happy.

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