okay I think I'm in love with my best friend and I think he likes me too. but I don't know

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madcardinal6 · Answer

well why do you think he likes you? any specific sign because of which you think he likes you? because it can just be his friendliness

parishi_ · Answer

he said he wants to have sex with me

madcardinal6 · Answer

exactly it's not love. but yeah if you want fwb then works fine

parishi_ · Answer

but also he is in love with someone else...but he also told me he feels like home with me

madcardinal6 · Answer

dude no. i understand your feelings but no. it will not be a good idea at all

parishi_ · Answer

we spent a night together didn't have sex just held hands drank a bit...talked the whole night

madcardinal6 · Answer

if he wants you tell her to get it over with that girl if he cannot just don't then. stay friends only

parishi_ · Answer

I know it's a horrible idea..i just can't keep him out of my head

madcardinal6 · Answer

maybe find another guy? just for a while. like a fling

parishi_ · Answer

oh I tried and i said my friend's name while we were doing it...so it kinda didn't go well.

madcardinal6 · Answer

well if you went forward with this it wont end up well probably because for now according to him he doesn't love you, you're just there for sex or other benefit. so if this ends friendship ends. not worth the risk

parishi_ · Answer

yaa... you're right..i really need to get my mind off him

madcardinal6 · Answer

yes

cynicalleopard9 · Answer

it's ur own feeling or any frnds or other people said so?? and sometimes its happened we r frnds from so long so come in a comfort zone with eachother and misunderstood with like or love feeling..... and how u know about second person feel same?? before deciding any thing just make sure all the things first

cynicalleopard9 · Answer

all the best

parishi_ · Answer

how would I make sure about all these things how do I know how he feels.

cynicalleopard9 · Answer

firstly sure about ur feelings then second one

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?