they force mi for marriage, but i don't want nowww..I'm 21 just .....
David6124
Yes 21 is not a right age for marriage. You're still a kid and should be enjoying ur youth rather than being tied up by various things that comes along with marriage.
David6124
Do you have a goal in your life? Something you want to achieve?
David6124
You might be just out of college or still in college.
trishuuu
just done with graduation in pharmacy
trishuuu
even my mom also .....is not my side
trishuuu
im done yrr I don't wana live...i wana die
David6124
What goes on in your parents mind is to get you safe and secure. If they marry you off, they can be at peace that she's in a safe place and someone would be there for her. So if you don't wanna get married you gotta prove that you are fine on your own for now and you have a clear goal which you want to achieve before marriage and that you want to support the family too and not stay as a housewife n all.
David6124
That's why I'm asking you again. Do you have a goal in your life that you want to achieve
trishuuu
yaa obviously yrr ...
David6124
So be firm in your stance. Tell them you want to achieve it before marriage. That you also want to support the family. Crying and all won't help. Only your determination and effort can help.
mon00
I'm ur same age I can feel u..let them understand ur goal in life.let them knw what u want..no parents want to see their child unhappy in life.