hi i am a person who was sexually abused as a child than in continuity i faced various other disturbing events in my life such as lack of love from family, no friends,no love I'm grown up like this than as i came up into relationships i was again stressed out with my exe's with toxic related and being cheated on now I'm dealing with overthinking, anxiety,stress and Depression what should I do to be a better person and how can i overcome from this?

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importedbaboon8 · Answer

kya kya hua , tumhare satg

sheepishdotterel9 · Answer

I have suffered a lot at every phase og my life. which one u want to discuss?

importedbaboon8 · Answer

abused phase as a child?

stuckbutterfly · Answer

try to forgive and be happy

sheepishdotterel9 · Answer

I used to life away from my mother and father as a child with my relatives. i have sm memories that I was 4 to 5 years old and there were 3 boys at my relatives place they rented  2 rooms in there house they used to do some bad stuffs with me. and as I grow up I realized all this and i got traumatized  with this event i am still having problems as I get close to someone i suddenly start crying or i don't know what happens to me

stuckbutterfly · Answer

it can be very traumatizing, but not all people will treat you that way and every woman would have faced this, many boys too. Maybe you would have went through more than us, still let it go.

stuckbutterfly · Answer

next time allow yourself to enjoy whatever you want. trust yourself that you know how to take care of you at any situation

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

you are already a better person...and people not able to love you lack themselves and I know it's hard to overcome such situation but you are trying that's the great thing ...start from self love you will realise it's okay to be not loved by everyone ..even you don't like everyone but do something by which your mind get distracted and calm ..try to be better version of yourself.

importedbaboon8 · Answer

Ab tak yaad hai .itne saal pahle ki baat

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

it's okay to not trust easily  so one you come around someone and  if you feel safe just try to trust them not everyone is same

importedbaboon8 · Answer

itne saalo me bahut kuch mix ho gaya mind me...

humoroustortoise7 · Answer

yaad rehta hai aise cheez asani se nai bhul sakte

sheepishdotterel9 · Answer

but if i try to overcome from past suddenly something happens to me is present that is added to my traumatizing history and I'm stressed again

sheepishdotterel9 · Answer

I tried quitting again and again but i failed to do so.

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