Slowly I am realizing that no one loves me except my parents.
Bard
1
do you feel like you need others love.. to be happy?
needfuleagle5
Now it seems that I am not important to anyone
needfuleagle5
You talk about the love of others, there is no one here to talk to me
Bard
I am there
Bard
Feeling unimportant is just a by product of feeling not loved. You might be affecting people around you positively without realising
Bard
so you are important.
needfuleagle5
Just 10 minutes ago I cried in front of everyone but no one asked that don't cry
Bard
Given this thread is public I won't ask in any detail. I understand you are going through tough times. But such things are best to teach you about yourself. How ever you deal with things and whatever you say yourself. just be poised and resilient. Tough don't last forever.
Bard
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If you deal with things alone. Be proud of your individual strength. Maybe take some things on ego to not feel bad. Like how can something like this make me sad. I am powerful. Love healthy. Overall you will 👿
needfuleagle5
People are playing games with my emotions, the people where I live have left me alone
needfuleagle5
i feel like screaming
Bard
Its always difficult to control how feel about something. But you can control how you act. Consider such feelings as noise. Desensitize them a little bit. And it's fine to feel bad.
Bard
Then scream.
needfuleagle5
i feel like if someone hugs me
Bard
Hug your mom and dad
needfuleagle5
my parents away from me
Bard
so no one?
needfuleagle5
ha, really no one
needfuleagle5
ðŸ˜
Bard
There you have some work to do. Instead feeling miserable and having uneasy thoughts. work on building a circle. Pick things you like and try meeting like minded people. You will find people to hug. Be diverse. Do different things.
Bard
Building a support system is always good. afterall we are social creatures.
Bard
Tell me what things do you like?
needfuleagle5
It's 4 in the morning, and I haven't been able to sleep all night, right now it's hard for me to divert my mind
Bard
I see
Bard
You from my timezone
needfuleagle5
i like to be loved
Bard
Then love yourself.
Bard
Being loved by others you simply can't control that.. If you get upset about that, it will make you unhappy
Bard
Do you want someone specifics love.. like a girl. Or just feeling lonely?
needfuleagle5
how
needfuleagle5
i just need a friend
Bard
how to love yourself? well. Do things you like prioritise yourself. Don't people please. When you will feel good with this things you can take care of others you care.. (parents)..
needfuleagle5
With whom I can share anything and he should never leave me
Bard
one friend would be enough.. I have many I still feel somethings not there
Bard
problem is we seek that something from other. And other don't have it enough to give
Bard
If you don't mind me asking. are you a guy or girl?
needfuleagle5
I'm a girl
Bard
okay
needfuleagle5
n u
Bard
guy
Bard
when I have to make connections.. I go out on my own and do things. Things I like. I don't care if anyone's there or not. I find new people this. way. I go to gym because I wanna be healthy and muscular. There are like minded people there I made friends.
Bard
You have to do things and keep movin.. It will automatically feel good without being dependent on anyone else
Bard
Side note , having many people sometimes is headache 😆. You get into unimportant things. Just keep it simple and enjoy
Bard
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Do you like movies?
needfuleagle5
yup
needfuleagle5
I have no friends or close friends, so for me everything is only me
