join the listening circles. it’s a nice initiative to talk in a protective environment
I'm good. how r you?
gud hows your day
samairah how to join listening classes and can i also talk there
Just as usual! I had fun making long conversation with my colleague cum friend tho! how was your day btw
well ok actually i need proper advice for my problem
What type of problem you are facing! if i may ask.
well i have no friends and i dont know how to start
Do you have somebody on mind whom you want to be friend with?
in past ive been suffering from toxic friends but i want genuine ones is that normal or not
Yeah ofcourse normal! no doubts
i dont know how to make cobtacts on instagram facebook or in real life its not that hard but i suffer in long term management of friendship
i have no experience
so that is my problem
is this app safe
yes safe I believe!
how many friends you have
and how you manage them
If you have any person whom you think genuine, you can approach and tell that person like i wanna be friends with you!
i asked how many friends you have
i mean are you popular among them
I have more or less 10 friends..And i more like text them everyday! If i find any video or meme i share the same with them.Thats how we make conversation and we continue doing a little hahahihi for a while
thats really brave man it must have been difficult
I don't know about popularity but thing is my friends love me actually..They really care.So it's a nice feelings
so if they make fun of you or abuse you in cool sense is that okay with you
They make fun at times, but they don't intend to hurt me..Just for fun
You sure understand which one is for fun and which one to hurt your insides
so is it a practice or skill to not take fun of you seriously or is it normal for you
and are they available for you when you are in need or very close bond types
can i be your freind
if its ojay
hey are you there
Yeah most of the time yes..People have their way of doing things..They also work somewhere..I won't say they catch up immediately but they at least make times to commute properly..
Yes ofc..we can be friends.
are you ready
What would I say 1.2 3 and start.kaboom we are friends !
so in which state do you live
if its not too personal
You can tell me like how to communicate aside from iamears..You can shree your email id..or something else
I am from West Bengal..And you?
im from jammu kashmir
im really scared to make friends
i have paranoia
Jammu Kashmir is beautiful right? I don't know lot about it but thers vaishnav Devi.
You are good at communication tho! I don't know why you feel that way.
well yeah but since many changes have been there since it had became union territory
So how's the life?
emm ,,its clogged
tell me something abou you
your culture your likes
i think im getting panic attack noe
mmm I love watching movies , listening music. ..And I love paneer more than chicken.!
Do you know why you having panic attacks?
can i share
its like if the other persons feeling good and conversation level and others opinion i mean i make sure the other person is not feeling pressured
i get panic attack when other make fun of me
If i were you i would ask the person whether he's getting bothered! You will get to understand by reading comments or messages that you get in reply
you sure it's a panic attack? or its just you feel aweful?
id say i feel hurt inside when im not been able to properly convey my feelings
Yeah and it hurts when people make funof your feelings! That i can relate! Now i have stopped sharing my feelings with people who don't care.
You must have somebody to whom you can speak your heart out
so how you hide your feelings while conversating and still managing to stabilize your mindset to talk politely
is it okay if im opening my inside feelings to you because trust me i never i mean never open up fully even to my near and dear ones
I don't hide if i feel hurt I more like expose! Tell them it's hurting me!
Yeah you can open up! But only if you feel comfy enough.
so are you in job or studying
I'm in a job. you?
ohh yore lucky
im still studying college
i need your opinion about things i really wanted advice
i need your advice
mmm I think ki college life is better than job life I guess.The best feeling i get when I receive msg that salary' s been credited
so are you satisfied regarding your job
mmm I don't know how much of help i can be! But i ll try my best to help you.
Yes I am satisfied.You are satisfied with your subject that you have choosed in college?
so agar koi kisi baat ki vajah se jo ki apki galti nhi ho aur agla jab bhi aap uskey pass se nikle ya baithe vo apko ignore kare or apko pata lag bhi raha ho ki vo apse jalta hai ya nafrat karta hai aap khud ke mind ko uss situation mein kaise control karein ki naa apko fark pade aur ap apne kaam mein busy bhi rahein
are you diplomatically saying or really you love your job
No no I really like my job man.
agar mereko uss sawal ke regarding koi opinion kahte toh muje accha lagta
Okay ! agar meri galti nahi hai toh mai toh pehle usko bolunga ki bhai dekh Aisa scene hai..Phir bhi agar wo nhi samajhta hai toh kaya karee usko time dunga phir..Phir bhi agar behave same hi rehta hai taab toh mai aur koshish nhi karunga samjhane ke liye.Agar koi bandaa samajhna hi nhi chata hi galti nhi hai to tum kuch bhi keh lo wo samjhega nhi..Fark toh zarur padhega. Phir bhi Mai aise hi handle karunga.
This is how I feel..Tum batao tum kaisa sochte ho..So that we can work on changing stuffs a little!
fark to padta hai to kya main emotionaaly weak hoon main sochta hoon arey sabh khtaam ho gya ab kya hoga usey hua kya hai
kahan hoo bhai
bas yeh doubt nikal do
kahin bore to nhi kar rha main
Nahi emotionally weak nhi..Tum zada care karne wala person ho! Ismei koi galti nhi hai..You are delicate.Kuch khatam nhi hua. Tumko woh samne wala Banda bohut valuable hai to usse baat karo .Text Karo at least..And share you true feelings..Samjhega pakka
Nahi bro tum bilkul.hi bore nhi kar rahe..Zada socho maat it's okay.
kya ap bodybuilder hi
Nahi hoon bodybuilder. Tumhare baare mei kuch batao..Things you like things you don't , your hobbies aur baki saab
muje cricket pasand hai chess lekin padhai karte waqt negative thoughts aate hain
ap batao ki apne 11th 12th konse subjects they
cricket mujhe bhi pasand hai , dekhna khelna , tumhe kaya type ks negative thoughts aate hai padhai ke waqt?
Mera economics tha Pol sc tha aur sanskriti tha! English compulsary aur ek language
Mai arts wala Banda tum? and subjects?
gaane bajne lagte hain dimag mein kabhi lagta hai youtube kholu net chalou astrology dekhun
commerce ,, accounts business studies economics entrepreneurship
Haan toh dekh liyo but you have to understand wo saare cheez tumko distract bhi karte hai..Padhai ke waqt at least..
kya hamari chat sabhi dekh rahe hain
Haan dekh rhe hai..Toh kaya hua?
kya is app mein private chat kar sakte haib
nahi kar sakte shayed!
Tum idhar without hesitation apna feelings share okay..Sabhi karte hai
jab ap akele hote hain toh kya karte hain
sochne ke ilawa
Dost logo ko satata hoon..Kisi ko disturb karta hoon.ya phir gaane sun leta hoon ya phir you tube movies ye saab..Tum kaya karte hoo?
aur is app pe aap kisi stress ke vajah se aaye ya
haan ek doubt leke aaya tha but wo bohut peheli hi solve ho gaya.
Tum bodybuilder ho?
At least tum sacchi baat kehna ka dum toh rakkhe! yahi badhi baat hai.Meko koi suggest nhi kaya , i navigated and found this app..Phir use Kiya toh dekha ye toh bohot sahi hai.Here you can contribute also..So that great na.
can i call you big bro
thanks for understanding me really you are grear
sure you can! your name is Clarke! i will avoid the letter c and I'll call you larke that is boy..so yooh boy how u doing?
no call me clarke 😜
apko khane mein kya pasand hai
that Micheal Clarke? Australian batsman and captain? bohut sahi
mujhe junk foods pasand hai aur sweets ? tumhe? whats your fav fish?
chilly paneer paneer tikka
momos spring rolls manchurian hakka noddles and list goes on
kashmiri aloo ka dum i wish I could taste!
you like spicy
Yeah spicy i like but not that much! yeah bye.Anytime bro!