join the listening circles. it’s a nice initiative to talk in a protective environment
lordshuk
I'm good. how r you?
clarke34
gud hows your day
clarke34
samairah how to join listening classes and can i also talk there
lordshuk
Just as usual! I had fun making long conversation with my colleague cum friend tho! how was your day btw
clarke34
well ok actually i need proper advice for my problem
lordshuk
What type of problem you are facing! if i may ask.
clarke34
well i have no friends and i dont know how to start
lordshuk
Do you have somebody on mind whom you want to be friend with?
clarke34
in past ive been suffering from toxic friends but i want genuine ones is that normal or not
lordshuk
Yeah ofcourse normal! no doubts
clarke34
i dont know how to make cobtacts on instagram facebook or in real life its not that hard but i suffer in long term management of friendship
clarke34
i have no experience
clarke34
so that is my problem
clarke34
is this app safe
lordshuk
yes safe I believe!
clarke34
how many friends you have
clarke34
and how you manage them
lordshuk
If you have any person whom you think genuine, you can approach and tell that person like i wanna be friends with you!
clarke34
i asked how many friends you have
clarke34
i mean are you popular among them
lordshuk
I have more or less 10 friends..And i more like text them everyday! If i find any video or meme i share the same with them.Thats how we make conversation and we continue doing a little hahahihi for a while
clarke34
thats really brave man it must have been difficult
lordshuk
I don't know about popularity but thing is my friends love me actually..They really care.So it's a nice feelings
clarke34
so if they make fun of you or abuse you in cool sense is that okay with you
lordshuk
They make fun at times, but they don't intend to hurt me..Just for fun
lordshuk
You sure understand which one is for fun and which one to hurt your insides
clarke34
so is it a practice or skill to not take fun of you seriously or is it normal for you
clarke34
and are they available for you when you are in need or very close bond types
clarke34
can i be your freind
clarke34
if its ojay
clarke34
okay
clarke34
hey are you there
lordshuk
Yeah most of the time yes..People have their way of doing things..They also work somewhere..I won't say they catch up immediately but they at least make times to commute properly..
lordshuk
Yes ofc..we can be friends.
clarke34
are you ready
lordshuk
What would I say 1.2 3 and start.kaboom we are friends !
clarke34
so in which state do you live
clarke34
if its not too personal
lordshuk
You can tell me like how to communicate aside from iamears..You can shree your email id..or something else
lordshuk
I am from West Bengal..And you?
clarke34
im from jammu kashmir
clarke34
im really scared to make friends
clarke34
i have paranoia
lordshuk
Jammu Kashmir is beautiful right? I don't know lot about it but thers vaishnav Devi.
lordshuk
You are good at communication tho! I don't know why you feel that way.
clarke34
well yeah but since many changes have been there since it had became union territory
lordshuk
So how's the life?
clarke34
emm ,,its clogged
clarke34
tell me something abou you
clarke34
your culture your likes
clarke34
i think im getting panic attack noe
clarke34
now
lordshuk
mmm I love watching movies , listening music. ..And I love paneer more than chicken.!
lordshuk
Do you know why you having panic attacks?
clarke34
can i share
lordshuk
Yes..Please.
clarke34
its like if the other persons feeling good and conversation level and others opinion i mean i make sure the other person is not feeling pressured
clarke34
i get panic attack when other make fun of me
lordshuk
If i were you i would ask the person whether he's getting bothered! You will get to understand by reading comments or messages that you get in reply
lordshuk
you sure it's a panic attack? or its just you feel aweful?
clarke34
id say i feel hurt inside when im not been able to properly convey my feelings
lordshuk
Yeah and it hurts when people make funof your feelings! That i can relate! Now i have stopped sharing my feelings with people who don't care.
lordshuk
You must have somebody to whom you can speak your heart out
clarke34
so how you hide your feelings while conversating and still managing to stabilize your mindset to talk politely
clarke34
is it okay if im opening my inside feelings to you because trust me i never i mean never open up fully even to my near and dear ones
lordshuk
I don't hide if i feel hurt I more like expose! Tell them it's hurting me!
lordshuk
Yeah you can open up! But only if you feel comfy enough.
clarke34
so are you in job or studying
lordshuk
I'm in a job. you?
clarke34
ohh yore lucky
clarke34
im still studying college
clarke34
i need your opinion about things i really wanted advice
clarke34
i need your advice
lordshuk
mmm I think ki college life is better than job life I guess.The best feeling i get when I receive msg that salary' s been credited
clarke34
so are you satisfied regarding your job
lordshuk
mmm I don't know how much of help i can be! But i ll try my best to help you.
lordshuk
Yes I am satisfied.You are satisfied with your subject that you have choosed in college?
clarke34
so agar koi kisi baat ki vajah se jo ki apki galti nhi ho aur agla jab bhi aap uskey pass se nikle ya baithe vo apko ignore kare or apko pata lag bhi raha ho ki vo apse jalta hai ya nafrat karta hai aap khud ke mind ko uss situation mein kaise control karein ki naa apko fark pade aur ap apne kaam mein busy bhi rahein
clarke34
pls tell
clarke34
are you diplomatically saying or really you love your job
lordshuk
No no I really like my job man.
clarke34
agar mereko uss sawal ke regarding koi opinion kahte toh muje accha lagta
lordshuk
Okay ! agar meri galti nahi hai toh mai toh pehle usko bolunga ki bhai dekh Aisa scene hai..Phir bhi agar wo nhi samajhta hai toh kaya karee usko time dunga phir..Phir bhi agar behave same hi rehta hai taab toh mai aur koshish nhi karunga samjhane ke liye.Agar koi bandaa samajhna hi nhi chata hi galti nhi hai to tum kuch bhi keh lo wo samjhega nhi..Fark toh zarur padhega. Phir bhi Mai aise hi handle karunga.
lordshuk
This is how I feel..Tum batao tum kaisa sochte ho..So that we can work on changing stuffs a little!
clarke34
fark to padta hai to kya main emotionaaly weak hoon main sochta hoon arey sabh khtaam ho gya ab kya hoga usey hua kya hai
clarke34
kahan hoo bhai
clarke34
bas yeh doubt nikal do
clarke34
heyy bro
clarke34
kahin bore to nhi kar rha main
lordshuk
Nahi emotionally weak nhi..Tum zada care karne wala person ho! Ismei koi galti nhi hai..You are delicate.Kuch khatam nhi hua. Tumko woh samne wala Banda bohut valuable hai to usse baat karo .Text Karo at least..And share you true feelings..Samjhega pakka
lordshuk
Nahi bro tum bilkul.hi bore nhi kar rahe..Zada socho maat it's okay.
clarke34
kya ap bodybuilder hi
clarke34
ho
lordshuk
Nahi hoon bodybuilder. Tumhare baare mei kuch batao..Things you like things you don't , your hobbies aur baki saab
clarke34
muje cricket pasand hai chess lekin padhai karte waqt negative thoughts aate hain
clarke34
ap batao ki apne 11th 12th konse subjects they
lordshuk
cricket mujhe bhi pasand hai , dekhna khelna , tumhe kaya type ks negative thoughts aate hai padhai ke waqt?
lordshuk
Mera economics tha Pol sc tha aur sanskriti tha! English compulsary aur ek language
lordshuk
Mai arts wala Banda tum? and subjects?
clarke34
gaane bajne lagte hain dimag mein kabhi lagta hai youtube kholu net chalou astrology dekhun
clarke34
commerce ,, accounts business studies economics entrepreneurship
clarke34
wagaira
lordshuk
Haan toh dekh liyo but you have to understand wo saare cheez tumko distract bhi karte hai..Padhai ke waqt at least..
clarke34
kya hamari chat sabhi dekh rahe hain
lordshuk
Haan dekh rhe hai..Toh kaya hua?
clarke34
oh no
lordshuk
kaya.?
clarke34
kya is app mein private chat kar sakte haib
clarke34
haib
clarke34
hain
lordshuk
nahi kar sakte shayed!
lordshuk
Tum idhar without hesitation apna feelings share okay..Sabhi karte hai
clarke34
jab ap akele hote hain toh kya karte hain
clarke34
sochne ke ilawa
lordshuk
Dost logo ko satata hoon..Kisi ko disturb karta hoon.ya phir gaane sun leta hoon ya phir you tube movies ye saab..Tum kaya karte hoo?
clarke34
aur is app pe aap kisi stress ke vajah se aaye ya
lordshuk
haan ek doubt leke aaya tha but wo bohut peheli hi solve ho gaya.
lordshuk
Tum bodybuilder ho?
lordshuk
At least tum sacchi baat kehna ka dum toh rakkhe! yahi badhi baat hai.Meko koi suggest nhi kaya , i navigated and found this app..Phir use Kiya toh dekha ye toh bohot sahi hai.Here you can contribute also..So that great na.
clarke34
can i call you big bro
clarke34
bade bhaiya
clarke34
thanks for understanding me really you are grear
clarke34
great
lordshuk
sure you can! your name is Clarke! i will avoid the letter c and I'll call you larke that is boy..so yooh boy how u doing?
clarke34
no call me clarke 😜
clarke34
just kiddin
clarke34
apko khane mein kya pasand hai
lordshuk
that Micheal Clarke? Australian batsman and captain? bohut sahi
lordshuk
mujhe junk foods pasand hai aur sweets ? tumhe? whats your fav fish?
clarke34
chilly paneer paneer tikka
clarke34
momos spring rolls manchurian hakka noddles and list goes on
lordshuk
kashmiri aloo ka dum i wish I could taste!
clarke34
you like spicy
clarke34
bye bro
lordshuk
Yeah spicy i like but not that much! yeah bye.Anytime bro!