jab tk mai husband k pass thi tb tk sbkuch shi tha .. but waha se ane k baad ... wapas se wahi cheeze shuru ho gayi ..aur aj mujhe pata chala ki ..unka phone v kisi ne chura liya hai ..aur 2 din se koi contact nhi ho pa raha
Vickey
Oh, Aapne kisi family members ke through contact nahi kiya
SY
waha pr koi family member nhi rehta ... rent pe jin aunty k pass hai unse pucha to unhone bataya ki shaam tk to room pr tha usk baad phir se kahi gaye hai ... ye sb is alcohol ki wajah se ho Raha hai
SY
maine unse bola tha ki jb wo aa jaye to meri unse baat kra Dena .. but abhi tk koi call nhi ayi
Vickey
alcohol bahot hi dangerous hai, So kaise v karke aap unhe apne paas bula lo, yahi sabse best solution hai
Vickey
shayad woh bhul gai hongi, agar woh is time comfortable hai to aap unhe ek baar call kar lo
SY
haa but but ye kisi family members k involved hone pr hi ho payega but koi support hai hi nhi ...
Vickey
mam aapko khud active hona hoga, kyunki ye aapki v life ki baat hai, is liye aap kaise v unhe apne paas bula lo
SY
haa Mai kuch karungi mujhe mere job se leave lekr .. kyuki aise agr Maine unki baat sunti rahi ki mai sb chott dunga to kuch v nhi ho payega
Vickey
yeah jab tak aap action nahi logi, Unka Alcohol ka addiction nahi chutega
Vickey
Isliye Aap tension mat lo sab normal ho jayega, or woh aunty ji ko keh ke kal aap unse baat kar lena
SY
job quit krne ka option unka shi nhi rhega na ... kyuki job v to thik se nhi kr pate hai
SY
kyuki transfer me to time lg Raha hai ... jisse baat ki hai wo 2 months ka time bol rahe hai abhi to
SY
ha aunty se to mai kl baat kr lungi .
Vickey
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oh kyunki jab tak aap unke saath nahi rahogi, Alcohol addiction nahi chutne wala, so kuch v karke aap unko help kar do, jis se woh alcohol chor de
SY
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thik hai .
Vickey
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Ab comfortable feel ho Raha na
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haa but mind all time wahi jata rehta hai ki kya kuch ho Raha hoga ...bs sb kuch thik se chal paye ... kahi kuch galat na ho bs
Vickey
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Haan ye normal hai, Itni fikr to rahegi, bt use cheez ke liye aap itna tension me mat aa jao, ki phir aap hi uska solution na kar pao, aap strong banke rahogi tab hi unko help kar paogi
SY
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haa mere liye v ye sb kuch ajeeb hai .. maine apni family me nhi dekha kisi ko aise to bahut mushkil hota hai mere liye
SY
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avi baat huyi meri but behes k alawa hmari kuch baat nhi huyi ... 😔😢😢😢 mujhse paise bs maang rhe new phone lene k liye
SY
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mujhe kya Krna chahiye frnd avi k liye ... Mobile lakr deni chahiye ya phir kuch din aise chorr Dena chahiye ... bahut irritate kr diya hai mujhe
Vickey
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Nahi nahi aise time me aap unhe aise akele mat choro, or de do ek mobile ke paise dekar dekho ki kuch changes hota hai ki nahi
Vickey
Mobile purchase karke de dogi to Kam se Kam ye to hai na ki unse aapki baat ho paayegi or aap thoda tension free rahogi
SY
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ha Mai de dungi kl. waise Maine ye phone pehle v Diya hi tha abhi kuch din pehle kharab phone bnwaya tha tb bole ki ab Aisa kuch nhi karunga tb tk chori ho gya .
Vickey
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Haan phone to jaruri hai, aapko khud unse baat karne ke liye
Vickey
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and jab v aap free raho, unko call karke samjhao, or unse baat karo, unhe akela feel mat hone dena aap
SY
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thik hai mai ye v kr k dekhti hu .. bs is hope k sath mey be sb shi ho Jaye
Vickey
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Yeah, bs aap gussa mat hona and tension mat lena, and sab kuch samjhdari se handle karna, sab solve ho jayega
SY
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haa ... mujhe bahut log ye hi bolte rehte hai ki mujhe chorr dena chahiye ... but ab jb problem hai to kaise hm aise chorr skte hai ... sb bolte hai tum hi iska mn badhati ho .. paise deti ho Peeta hi hai kya matlb hai aj v wahi karega .
Vickey
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Nahi nahi, log kisi ki feelings nahi samjhte, Agar kisi se kisi ko attachment hai to woh use aise hi kaise chor sakta hai, and please aap apna 100% dekar unhe sambhalne ki kausis kijiye, or future me kya hoga koi nahi jaanta but log try to kar sakte hai na kisi ko sudharne ki
SY
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thik hai ap shi keh rahe hai
Vickey
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Ok mam, Good Luck, i hope sab jaldi se normal ho jaye
SY
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ok .
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hey ... pata hai Mai aj nikli hu husband k pass Jane k liye ... lekin maine pata kiya jb avi to wo phir room se bahr gaye hai ...n kl poora din bahr hi the raat me aye the ..10 baje . .. aise to aj ka v mera din waste ho jayega .
SY
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jabki kl bataya tha unhe ki kl kahi jana nhi ... Mai aungi to hmlog phone le lenge
Vickey
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aisa to nahi hai na ki woh shayad apne office Gaye ho, ye confirm kar lijiye, or Ek baar baar karke unke paas jaiye
Vickey
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and ho sake to unhe kuch dino ke liye apne paas lete aaiye
SY
duty se suspend hai ...
Vickey
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oh phir to paka woh kuch dosto ke saath Lage honge, Pahle aap confirm kar lo ki woh aaj milenge ki nahi, phir Jana aap warna sach me aapka pura din waste ho jayega
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may be kl aunty ne bataya tha bank ki passbook lekr ja rahe the kisi ladk k sath .. lekin unhone us ladk ko jane ko bol diya ... wo chala gaya and inko v mna kiya ki tum avi kahi bahr mtt jao lekin ye nhi maane aur chale gaye bole ki mujhe phone Lena hai ..kr k .. aur phir poora din bahr the .. aur kl raat me aye
SY
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mai to nikal chuki hu ab ... waha pahuch v jayenge ... 11 am tk
Vickey
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ok, Dekh lena aap shayad woh phone le liye ho, agar le liye honge to extra paise mat Dena warna woh alcohol me waste kar denge, and try karna aap unhe samjhane ki, Ye alcohol life nahi hai, family hi life hai, so family ka saath do
SY
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nhi liya hai avi ... bs sim li hai kl ..
SY
ha jb ye sb samjhate hai tb tk samajh jate hai usk baad wahi sab kuch ... mai koshish krti hu waha se laane ki unko ... lekin wo yahi bolenge ki mai theek ho jaunga
SY
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acha psychiatrist ko dikhana shi hoga kya
Vickey
Ok then aap unhe ek phone dila do, and uspe humesha baat karti rehna or samjhane ki kausis karti rehna, kyunki jab tak alcohol addiction nahi jayega, woh family pe focus nahi karenge
SY
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haa lekin problem ek aur v hai unki ki wo ab Mera call v receive nhi krte ... maine aisa v hua hai ki lagatar call ki hai ring jati rehti hai kabhi kabhi 100 time call chali jati hai but wo nhi pick krte hai call
Vickey
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Nahi abhi nahi, abhi aap khud se try karke dekh lo, kyunki abhi shayad agar aapki baat mante hai to aapki baat se sambhal jaye, agar kuch din me sudhar nahi hua to aap unko dikhwa lena
Vickey
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ek kaam karna aap agar woh aapke presence me v drink karte hai to aap unhe pshychatrist se dikhwa lena, kyunki ye thoda serious ho gaya hai
SY
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hmm lekin agr wo taiyar nhi huye ane ko tb mai kya karungi maine ye sb bataya unk ghar me yar koi support hi nhi dikhana chahta hai .. ye to galat baat hai na .
Vickey
Oh means family Wale v back le chuke hai, koi nahi aap unka saath mat chorna, Bs try karti raho, kaise v unka addiction khatm karne ki or unhe ek responsible person banane ki, Agar aapko meri kisi v tarah ki help chahiye hogi to aap batana, bs aap jyada tension mat lena, kyunki aapko hi unka addiction churana hai
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haa
SY
bs mujhe ... koi hospital ya psychiatrist suggest kr dijiye ... ya phir Mai apne nearby me kahi dikhau
Vickey
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Haan pahle aap aaj unse milke dekh lo, kya situation hai uske baad aage ka decide karna, shayad aap aaj unhe kuch samjha sako
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kyuki wo is baat ko avi accept karne ko taiyar nhi ki .. wo addicted ho gaye hai ... jabtk khud accept nhi karenge tb tk mai v kya kr paungi . mai bol deti hu ki chalo mere sath .. waha sath me rahenge kuch Naya shuru karenge ... tumhe koi jabardasti nhi hai ki ye job tum Karo hi ... life khatam nhi hai ... but samajhne ko taiyar nhi hai
Vickey
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Koi nahi, aap try karti raho, Alcohol ka addiction bahot hi khatarnak hota hai, or us se sirf aap hi bacha sakti ho unhe, so keep trying. Abhi to aap pachuh v gai hongi
SY
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haa Mai ayi to wo room pe hi the ... aj drink nhi kiye hai ... shant baithe the ... mai samjhayi to bol rahe hai ki ab ye sb kuch Krna hi nhi hai ... mai nhi karunga ... bs apne body aur health pr focus karunga
SY
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aise to ye hmesha hi bolte hai
Vickey
aap unhe last time mauka de kar dekhiye, kahi woh aapki baat Maan le, Aaj aapne dekha na, aapke Karan woh kahi bahar nahi gaye, shayad aapke kehne pe kuch sudhar ho raha hai
SY
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haa Maine time Diya hai ... dekhte hai .. phone v dila diya hai
Vickey
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Sahi hai, bas monitoring karte rahiyega
SY
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ha call uthate rahenge to hi monitoring ho payegi
Vickey
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Bs aap unko support karte rahiyega, or jaha Tak ho sake unki help kijiyega, unka new number le li ho aap na
SY
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sim new hai nmbr wahi allot kra liya hai
Vickey
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ok, phir aap call karti rehna, or pata karti rehna ki woh drink to nahi kar raha na
SY
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haa pta to krte hi hai
Vickey
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ok
SY
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hey.... koi sudhar nahi ... 2 din thik tha sabkuch ... aj subha tk sb shi tha but ab shaam se phir se wahi sb ho rha hai
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mai v thak chuki hu ab ... mera mn nhi hota .. chah ke v mai kuch nhi kr pa rahi hu .
Vickey
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are nahi, itni jaldi haar nahi maante, Or alcohol ki adat itni jaldi nahi jaati, aapne aaj samjhane ki kausis ki thi
SY
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maine jb thi waha 2 din samjhaya ... aj v subha tk wo thik the mujhe time time pr call kiye mere msgs k v reply kiye but 3 pm k baad se wo thik nhi the usk baad maine call kiye bht baar to bht mushkil se ek baar phone utha drunk the but normally bol rhe the aggressive nhi the but the aur avi raat me v the
Vickey
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uske liye aapko unhe kuch dino ke liye apne paas rakhna hoga, kyunki ye adat aise nahi jaane wali, or jab tak woh akele rahenge tab tak woh drink karna nahi chorenge
SY
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maine subha v samjhaya tha to bole the ki ... ha Mai in sb cheezo me nhi padunga ... sbkuch thik karna hai mujhe ... mujhe v realise hota hai ki mai kya kr rha hu. ..ye sb baatein bolte hai lekin phir pta nhi kya ho jata hai ..
SY
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thik hai ... phir to ek hi option baki hai unko yaha transfer krne ka tb tk mujhe ye sb bardasht Krna hoga ...
Vickey
Haan, ye addiction ka effect hai, log chorna chahta hai, lekin chor nahi pata, woh v shayad chorna chah rahe, bs unhe kuch support ki jarurat hai
SY
thik hai chorrna chahte hai to ... accept kyu nhi krte hai mere samne aise kyu bolte hai ki mujhe addiction nhi hua hai ...
Vickey
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koi v insaan ye thode na accept karega ki use kisi cheez ka addiction ho gaya hai, is Karan woh accept nahi kar rahe, kyunki unhone accept Kiya na ki unhe v ye sab cheeze chorni hai, isliye woh ek ache insaan hai or unhe ye sab chorne me bs aap hi help kar sakti ho
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To thik hai ab kl ki subha hogi mujhe normal behave Krna chahiye unse ... mai jyada kuch bolungi nhi ...
Vickey
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Haan aap gussa mat karo, or khud ka v khyal rakho, kyunki self care v important hai
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self care hi mere se nhi ho pati hai ... mai unsb se stress me aa jati hu aur ... bar bar mera dimag future aur phir bahut saare logo ki baaton se ki ye insan kabhi nhi sudhar sakta ... aisa mujhe bahut mind disturbed ho jata hai Mai future ko lekr apne pareshan ho jati hoon
Vickey
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Sab sahi ho jayega, Bs apni care karo, agar aap weak Hui to phir woh kaise sahi ho payenge, Aapne unhe apni condition batai ho ki, unke Karan aap mentally disturbed ho rahi, or family Wale v support nahi kar rahe
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ha Maine ye sb kuch bola ki mai bahut pareshan ho jati hu .. mujhe anxiety jaisa feel hota hai sbkuch bataya .... infact mai rone v lagi but ... us time to yahi bole ki tum tension mtt lo mai sb theek kr dunga .. ab se ye sb kuch v nhi hoga ... ye sb kuch nhi karna hai ache se khana hai .. aur health pr dhyan v dena hai aur apse baat karni hai but waps aj wahi
Vickey
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mam phir to woh paka addicted ho chuke ha, unhe ab last time aap kisi doctor se dikhwa lo, kyunki kab tak aap tension leti rahogi, jise aapke rone ki fikr nahi hai, woh aise alcohol nahi chorenge
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haa mujhe v realise hone laga hai ... ye sb shi ho nhi payega
SY
maine doctor k pass chalne ke liye kaha but wo ready nhi hai ...
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mai jitna support unko karti hu ..agr wo mujhe thoda v help kiye hote to aj wo bilkul shi ho gaye hote ... but support dikhana hi nhi chahte ..
Vickey
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Aap try karti raho, unhe jab tak ye feel nahi hoga ki woh addicted ho gaye hai or unhe kisi ki help chahiye hogi, tab tak woh nahi jayenge, bs aap unse insab baato pe fight mat karna, or Apni care karte huye unki help karna
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pehle fight nhi hoti thi but ab dheere dheere ye v hone lga hai kyuki wo meri call nhi uthate hai .. jbtk mai waha jati nhi wo khud ko normal nhi hone dete .. to ache khase insan ko gussa aa jayega ...
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ha shi keh rahe ap ki feel nhi hoga ... tbtk kuch nhi ho sakta aur feel tabhi hota hai jb ... bahut kuch barbaad ho chuka hota hai
Vickey
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Haan ye to hai, but aap gusse pe control karte huye, Apni taraf se unhe sudharne ki kausis karo, aap ek kaam karo, aap jaha rehti ho, waha unhe bula lo or kisi doctor se dikhwa lo,
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haa is baar doctor se milna hi jaroori hai
Vickey
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Aapke saath woh rehne ko ready nahi hote kya??
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nhi mere sath wo rehna chahte hai infact jb yaha rehte hai to wo bilkul theek rehte hai ..
SY
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jb apne duty me jate hai tbhi wo day one se hi drink Krna shuru kr dete hai ...
Vickey
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phir aap kaise v unhe apne paas bula lo, shayd uske baad unki aadat chut jaaye
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kabhi kabhi mera mn krta hai ki mai naraj hokr baat na kr k dekhu kya ... aisa krne se shyad kuch samajh aye ... but phir mn me ata hai ki kahi aisa na ho aur jyada hone lge ye sb kuch
SY
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haa mujhe yahi karna hoga ...
Vickey
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Nahi nahi aap baat karna mat chorna, phir unhe or alone feel hone lagega and Alcohol or badh jayega, isliye aap humesha unse baat karti rehna
SY
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ye sb karna bahut mushkil ho raha hai mujhe ....
Vickey
Aap tension mat lo, sab sahi ho Jayega, jyada sochogi to aapki health pe effect hoga
SY
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ha koshish krte hai ... na soche
Vickey
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Aap tension mat lo, sab sahi ho jayega, Take care
SY
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ok thanks.
Vickey
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Hello, Sorry for disturbing u, but Ab aapke husband alcohol se distance maintain kar rahe hai na
SY
hii it's ok
SY
haa avi to theek chal rahe hai ... aj 4 din ho gya hai .... avi tk kuch nhi kr rhe hai ... time to time mujhe call krte hai ... aur bol to rahe hai ki ab mai chorr dunga to chorr dunga wapas nhi Jana chahta hu ... ye sb kr k mujhe kuch v nhi Mila avi tk
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haa Mai v unko motivate hi kr Rahi hu ... seriously mere liye hr ek din aisa hota hai ki mujhe bahut dhyan dena hota hai ... all time jb v mujhe lag raha hai ki mujhe call Krna chahiye tb call kr k unko ... samjha v rahe hai ...
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dekhte hai avi kuch keh to nhi sakte but agr wo aise hi khud ko shi kr k chalenge to shyad kuch acha ho Jaye .
Vickey
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All the best, and mujhe v update dete rehna, And i wish ki sab sahi ho jayega
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ok ... ha waise Maine socha tha Mai yaha ye sb bataungi ki avi aisa chal raha hai .. apne puch liya... thankyou so much
SY
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ha theek ho Jaye sb tb hi shi hai
Vickey
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Sab sahi ho jayega, be positive
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wapas se shuru hua kl aur aj ... avi kuch dino tk control tha .
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mai aj bahut baar call krti Rahi but unhone mera call nhi pick Kiya ...
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9 sep k baad se 16 ko drink kiye the then usk baad phir 21 ... thoda koshish ki thi but ab isi tarah se kaise maintain karau ...
Vickey
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ok, Koi nahi unme kuch to sudhar hai, Kyunki addiction aise hi nahi chutne wala, woh dheere dheere karke chutega, Kam se kam unme sudhar to hai, bs aap apni taraf se pura effort lagaye rakhiye
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yar kya kare aj drink kark seedhi se neeche gir Gaye hai ... sir me thodi chot ayi hai ...
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waha pe Jo aunty thi wo call ki thi ... ki inko akr dekho ...
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irritation hoti hai mujhe bahut ... 2 din ho gaye aj call nhi aya hai .... binge drinking karte hai ....nhi karte hai to bilkul v nhi karte ... aur karte hai to bahut jyada karte hai ... ki hosh hi nhi rehta hai ... isi wajah se ye sb hua hai. .
Vickey
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oh phir to unki care karna jaruri hai, abhi to woh or v bure condition me honge, woh aapke paas aa jaye, aisa koi solution nahi hai kya
SY
ek hi option hai job chorrna hoga ... mood bahut kharab ho gaya ... ghar pe ye sb discuss kar k koi kuch karne ko ready nhi hai bs sb gussa dikha rahe hai .
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sblog bol rahe ki kuch din chorr do usko aise hi ..... mtt jao ...
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but jayenge kl dekhte hai
Vickey
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Haan jaruri hai, aapka saath unhe chahiye or aap hi unhe sambhal sakti ho
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hmm sochti hu ki aisa Karu na jau ... but agr kahi kuch bura ho gaya to ... mujhe hmesha k liye guilt rahega ... mujhe acha feel nhi ho Raha is time bilkul v ...
Vickey
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are nahi, aap tension mat lo, aapka strong hona bahot jaruri hai, sab sahi ho Jayega, agar kal aapke paas leave hai to aap chali jao, or kuch v karke unhe apne paas bula ke dekho, Last time agar woh nahi aate hai to, phir aap unki help mat karna or apne life pe focus karna
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ha jayenge kl ...but last time kya de ... mujhe pata hai wo shi nhi ho skte . ... mujhe aisa lagta hai mujhe chorrna hi padega at the end .
Vickey
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nahi nahi, aap negative mat socho, bs unka saath deti raho, sab sahi ho jayega
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de rahe hai sath to ....
Vickey
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jaruri v hai, or please aap tension mat lo, sab normal ho Jayega
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ok
Vickey
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Take care mam
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aj ayi Mai yaha ... bilkul hosh hi nhi hai ...mai v gussa kr di ... but gusse me baat aur badh gayi ... unhone mera bag utha kr fek diya bole chali jao yaha se ... mujhe avi kisi se koi baat nhi karni ..
SY
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aise sbkuch violence pr utr aaya hai .... ab subha hi samajh me ayega ki kya kiya hai
Vickey
Woh abhi v excess drink kiye huye hai? or kya woh aapse ache se baat nahi kar rahe
Vickey
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Aap v gussa ki hongi na, gussa nahi karna hai, agar aap gussa karogi, ya react karogi to situation or bigad jayega
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wo poora din aj room pr nhi the .. 3 bhe aye the ... jb mai shaam me ayi to so rahe the ... mai bahut irritate thi ... tb hmari behes huyi thi .... nhi utne v jyada nashe me nhi the Maine phir khana khilaya to ab so rahe hai ... but wo kisi se koi baat nhi karna chahte ...
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haa situation to bigad hi raha hai .... ab kya karun ghar pr batana v jaroori tha ...inki halat k baare me ... ab kl wo log v baat karenge to wapas Inka dimag irritate hoga ... mai kbse unlogo ko bol Rahi hu koi ek log ink sath rahe akr ... tbhi ye thik rahenge kyuki ye apni job nhi chorrenge itna to mujhe lag raha hai ...
Vickey
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Alcohol ke addiction ko churana bahot tough hai, uske liye sabse pahle aap kaafi shant hona hoga and patience rakhna hoga, kyunki ye ek din me khatm nahi hone wala, isliye sabse pahle aapko khud strong and samjhdar banana hoga, kabhi v gusse me baat nahi karna hoga, jaha Tak ho sakte unhe support karna hoga, humesha pyar se baat kijiye or samjhane ki kausis kijiye,
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waqt kitna v lag jaye mai taiyar hu ... lekin ye theek ho Jaye bs ... mai yahi chahti hu .
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mai ye nhi kehti ki ye sb jaldi se shi ho bs ... koi inki care karne wala ho ... kyuki care bahut jaroori hai ... agr mai apni job chorr dungi to ghar phir nhi chal sakta ...
Vickey
Ho jayenge, bs aap unka saath deti raho, kausis karo ki unke saath ya to koi rahe ya phir aap unhe apne saath leti jao, jab unko aapki jarur rahe aap unke paas chali aao, unki care karo, or kausis karo samjhane ki, Alcohol dheere dheere Kam kar de
Vickey
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nahi nahi aap apni job chorne ki sochna v nahi, woh aapki back bone hai, Aapke husband se v jyada jaruri aapki job hai mam, uske baare me negative mat socho
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haa ... mai to hr cheez krne ko ready hu ... bs ye mujhe support to kare ... avi nhi kr rhe bilkul v support ...
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job nhi chorrenge ... 3 , 4 dino se khana nhi khaya hai inhone .... is wajah se ... hangover utar v nhi patavki subha guilt me aur v kr lete hai ... bahut weak ho chuk hai andr se ...
Vickey
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agar kal woh aapki baat sunane ko ready nahi hote hai to aap v unse kuch din distance bana lena, tab jakar unhe aapki feelings ki kadr hogi
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mujhe v lagta hai ki distance bnana hi hoga ... us beech ya to ye shi ho jayenge ya phir barbad hi ho jayenge ... kaha baat hi hoti hai hmari ... agr alcohol chalta hai hai to bs alcohol hi chalata hai ... na hi kisi ko call krte hai na kisi ka phone uthate hi hai ....
Vickey
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Aap ek baar unhe kuch dino ke liye apne saath lekar jaane ki kausis karke dekho, shayad kuch din saath rahe to kuch effect ho
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maine distance bna v liya tha but phir yaha se call aa gayi ki apk husband ko chot lagi hai ...aplog dekh nhi rahe hai .. phir kya karti ana hi pada
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aj kaha to ready nhi the ab kal bol kr dekhti hu .
Vickey
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shayad aapke saath rahne pe kuch changes aaye
SY
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mujhe bs itni jaroor lagta hai ki ink sath agr koi rahe jinse ye attach hai to inme jaroor sudhar ayega ... bs yahi nhi ho pa raha hai ... inki zidd ki wajah se bs ...
Vickey
1
inke family me koi aisa nahi hai jo saath rah sake, or kuch din inki care kar sake
SY
1
hai inki mother hai ... unse maine aj strictly bola hai .. but joint family hai ...to dekhte hai wo kb ayengi
Vickey
1
Maa ke saath rahke Kam chance hai ki woh chore, aap kausis karo ki apne saath le jayen
SY
1
thik hai
SY
1
hii ... mere se nhi ho skta hai ab ... chorr du kya .. mai bahut frustrated ho chuki hu .
SY
unka behaviour bahut change ho chuka hai ... maine poora din call Kiya but doesn't pick my calls .... mujhe lagta hai ab alcohol k bajaye kisi aur sangat me ja rahe hai ...nhi to kuch v ho jaye ... wo subha mujhse normal hokr ache se baat krte the ... but ab nhi karte .
SY
he needs rehab ....
SY
1
but kya rehab me log thik ho pate hai kya .
Vickey
1
Haan unhe shayad ab rehab ki jarurat hai, but usme kaafi time lagta hai, or uske baad shayad unka view of life v change ho jaaye
Vickey
Kyunki agar woh aapki baat ko maante to abhi tak alcohol ko chor chuke hote but shayad woh Puri tarah addicted ho chuke hai
Vickey
1
Ek last attempt leke dekho, agar phir v woh nahi sudharte hai to aap phir apni life pe focus karna or unhe waise hi chore dena but last time try karke dekh lo
SY
1
avi to maine jhooth bolkr ki mera accident ho gya hai aisa boli hu unko apne pass bulane ka
SY
last attempt kya du.... parso se ab unki mother unk sath hi rahegi ... ye decided hai
SY
inko akele rakhna bahut galat hoga .... safayi kharab hai ...kuch v ho skta galat nashe me v ja skte hai ... mujhe aisa lg raha hai
SY
1
lekin rehab v to bahut mushkil se jayenge ... kaise bhejenge ... jabardasti ..
Vickey
1
Aapke paas aa jate hai to sahi hai, warna unki maa to aa hi Rahi hai, Shayad is se unpe kuch effect ho, or shayad unhe kuch sudhar ho sake, Bs panic mat hona aap, kyunki shaant dimag se hi sab kuch ka solution hai
SY
1
wo nhi ayenge ...mai phir se subha se hi call kr rhi hu nhi uth raha hai call pata nhi kaha hai
Vickey
1
Unki maa kab aane wali hai??
SY
1
kl niklenge wo log yar ... bahut dimag kharab hai ghar me koi unko chorrne k liye ready hi nhi ho Raha hai kisi k pass time nhi hai ...
SY
1
mai bahut jor jabardasti se boli hu ...tb Jakr wo kr rhi hai ...kisi k sath aayengi kl
Vickey
1
Kaafi old-age hai kya woh, agar old age hai to phir unko v pareshani ho jayegi na
SY
ha age to hai ... but kya kar skte hai ..mere pass koi rasta nhi dikh rha hai
SY
mai unke bhai log se bolkr dekh li ghar me sbko pata hai ... lekin koi intrest nahi dikha raha hai ... wo hmlog k control k bahr ho rahe jbtk koi bhai nhi ayega ... tbtk ..unko control Krna mushkil ho raha hai .
Vickey
kyunki unki care karne wala v koi chahiye na
SY
1
kar lengi wo ... kar leti hai ...avi shi hai
Vickey
phir v aap kausis karna ki woh aapke paas aa jaye, woh jyada better rahega
Vickey
Thoda tough hai lekin, ye jyada option hai, or rule v kehta hai ki unhe aapke paas rehna chahiye