if U can't forgive her and U want her to say sorry so bad, go and talk to her abt this topic, it will be more better I guess

hey..i understand it's hard for you but i think u should forgive her without saying or asking anything and also divert ur mind with whatever u like,stay calm,and live ur life bro ....(time tells everything,u should forgive her )for ur mental peace ☮️

you don't have to forgive her. if it's bothering you, you have to talk about it. trust is so important in every relationship. if she's calling you that, it means she doesn't her fiance nor her sister. you have to clear your name Or every time in future you talk to him she'll be a problem.

It's not some small bro n sis or frnz ke bich vaala slang, that is so deep and it is not something one must say to anyone .. if it's really not ur fault n u haven't said any such things or whatever that is wrong, then she must apologize , I would suggest u that u don't need to bring up that matter honestly if I say, because it will create more fight n she doesn't seem to be a person who will understand.. she didn't even ask to forgive her, don't fight but just try talking just very casual as if she's a person who u meet very casually n try being close with other relatives or some close frnz who is a girl, don't get attached but then atleast uske saamne laugh n hug ur frnd or relative n if she comes n talks to you be normal like u really don't care about her don't need to be rude, but don't be very friendly, talk like kaam se kaam rakhna vaala talk, what she says, u respond, if mom gives any task or u have to tell her anything regarding any work then normally talk about stuffs n just leave, no need to be friendly .. u are a nice person n u love her, so u won't do anything wrong n u must not do n we are not such people, otherwise what's the difference, we are good people we don't do bad with others, but we are not fools, we are not selfish but that doesn't mean we don't have self-respect.. Idk y u both fought, but telling such things is not correct .. As I said just talk very casually, don't ignore or irritate or stop talking, talk to how much she talks n be very casual kaam se matlab .. like u really don't care n just be very very casual, if she confronts, then let's see if it could be sorted ..

Vai... you on fire today! shall we talk about how you have been now a days?

N uske saamne na cousin sister or any frnd of yours who is not close with her or attached to her, unke saat hii try getting friendly

@recovering, I am good by Maa Kali ki kripa, hby .. how r your things, I really felt nice to see ur comment here, which said u must have self-respect, like it's fine to fight n all but there are certain things which has limits n even after crossing it, u r not being apologetic, that's wrong completely, u shouldn't let anyone take u that granted .. there is difference between bonding, comfort and taking for granted

@recovering, u too mostly are on fire mode always .. haha .. I don't come very often to this app, but then if I see any notification n I feel I must comment on it, then I go ahead n give my views over it ♥️ .. Btw I am Vaishnavi from Mumbai n u

glad to know you're doing good. My things are a bit thangled currently but will soon clear up! also, yes swlf respect is good but I said what I said to clear any future issues that might arrive and so that @littlethingsmatter can have a great relationship with her sister and her jijaji in future. if these things remain in her mind, it'll just cause more problems ahead.

I have seen ur comments a lot of times, most of the times they are logical n right .. u r a straight forward personality, who's quiet practical n believe in logical things it seems

I do tend to be head on emotions down kinda girl. not everyone can relate or understand, let alone appreciate!

even what u said is right, @littlethings don't keep these things in ur head .. first u can just normally confront regarding it, if she is really being apologetic n really feels it's not right what she said at the heat of the moment it's fine, okay forgive her, but if she's having some other attitude then better try those mentioned things, n one must realise things n I guess so she would realise too .. now I am a third person, I don't know what kinda bond u both share .. if it was a very good bond always n this happened at the heat of the moment just confront regarding same n talk it out n tell how u feel

haha .. Tysm ♥️

I get u Maria, I can understand what u relate to things with ..

@mellow Tysm .. u found us helpful .. ♥️ .. we are happy to meet u as well

Always glad to find people with same wavelengths @vai @mellowotter

forgiveness is greater than hate .. at times like this people use the words which they don't mean .. but there's no harm in forgiving her .. after all she is your sister ... just one thought why do you want to keep that thing in your mind .??? forgive coz once you lose a person to death and we don't know when is that we will regret not talking to them more than what you are feeling now ... we never know when our last goodbye is ...

@Maria, u r the type I can say, small company small drama Kinda, have emotions for people who really mean a lot to you n u r very choosy regarding same too

@Recovering .. haha .. I am more of trying to be Emotional n Practical, a balanced personality .. Like I am good but bang on don't take me wrong n try fooling me 🤣 .. that kinda

Antaryaami😂😂 @vai and sorry @mellowotter I don't use telegram

haha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

you seem to have a good grasp in reality, healthy boundaries, introverted extrovert, high self worth, bold but knows when to shut up and where to open up!

people get surprised n they say this to me many of the times, the common question they ask is do u know me or have we met before .. I be like, I know from the moment u introduced me a while ago haha 🤣🤣

@Recovering .. Yeah that's very very correct .. true that .. u too have a very good observation ..

and yeahh... hates when underestimated or wronged because that extreme good can go to 180° opposite extreme bad real quick without remorse!

it's very rare people understand me or my personality ..

haha 🤣🤣 .. yeah bad but then I have limits unlike the other person but, what I do might hit that person very hard n can go crazy 🤣

well... rare and crazy (me) is what you're gonna get on an mental health support app past midnight 😜😜

u really have a very good analysis, really.. Quiet observant u too are .. ♥️ .. A profession like HR post will really just fit u according to me .. u analyze so good .. that's just according to me but, u have ur own dreams and ways ♥️ .. n yeah one more thing I wanna add on to you, u r more like a personality who gets mad very easily if the person really matters baaki u don't get mad easily because baaki logo ka it really doesn't matter

haha .. U are a very good analytical person I would say .. Haha mental health support app makes would be like ye konse namoone aa gae ♥️🤣

makers*

well I'm lecturer.. I'll handle stupid kids over stupid employees anyday in a heartbeat! thanks for the compliments though! and yeah that's right too! my anger has extremes.. All Or nothing! I have to say.. it's been fun talking to you😊😊

same here Maria .. It was really nice talking to someone who analyzed me too very nicely .. that introverted extrovert is the line I always say to myself n no one has said that much to me .. that's really a tough one .. that adjective is simply what I just like to hear .. but mostly people don't say that much, they either think I am too boring or too bholi or too bindaas.. it was really nice talking to you too Maria ♥️

@littlethingsmatter I would say one thing, if u n ur sister always have shared a great bond n it's just sometimes u both fight n at heat of the moment she said, then I would suggest you to confront her n say that u really felt very bad n u love her so much n that is the reason u forgive her ..

@littlethingsmatter .. If that is what the case is of having a very great bond, then try to not keep it much in ur head then .. forgive her after talking it out regarding ur feelings, .. it's ok .. but only if u have always shared a good bond of love n fight n at heat of the moment she said it

Chalo gn dear @vai. Hope you clear things up with your sister and make a stronger bond in future @littlethingsmatter

Yeah GN Take care ♥️

will talk again if we meet in any such comments n pair up haha ♥️🤣 ..

we shared good bond she even says i m her best friend i think i expected too much and now that she said those words i cant normally talk to my jiju( her fiance) with previous feelings as it hurts whenever i talk. she said those comments because of i brought his name she was like what was the need and out of anger she said that word ...still it hurts i will never be the same now..

it is clearly bothering you. speak up in a manner that it won't make fights but tell her she has to trust you and build a clean clear relationship with both of them. a little uncomfortable talk today can help you with a great bond with both of them all your life.

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