Yaa but what can we do if other person leaves us . only thing is to accept it and move on in a positive way
ifeelfine24
yes, but why come into someome's life again and again emotionaly killing them over and over if you know you fucked up at the first place and then thinking maybe if I apolagise everything will be fine but I'm still the same shitty person I was and not worthy of anything
Guguu
You learn from your past relationships. Nobody is perfect. The point is you should not give your key of happiness to that one person.
ifeelfine24
this whole thing is just stupid... it gets me down sometimes..
Guguu
If u think its stupidity then why you need to be in a relationship. Enjoy singlehood
ifeelfine24
well I can't just divorce my husband. he's stupid but I still love him and tbh I thougjt about a divorce so many times because he sometimes doesn't apreciate what I do for the family... I take care of our child and he has home cooked meal every day and clean house clean laundry and he still doesn't apreciate me..
Guguu
I guess u should convey your feelings to your husband, dont end your relationship only because he doesnt appreciate you. Try talking to him , spend some quality time or do something that makes him realise your importance.
ifeelfine24
we talked about it so many times and its not just that hes rarely home he goes out with his buddies and drink while im home all day taking care of a child and when i put that out there he says its not true
ifeelfine24
when i try to go we make plans that hell be home with our kid and the next day he goes out with his friends... i need a break too
Guguu
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Tell him bluntly that i am not your servant , I m your wife. And see if you have given your 100 % to save your relationship and its still not working , then try to avoid him and his work and if even then he doesn't care , then separation maybe your answer
