my bf is very manipulative i am depressed cause of him.

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Recovering_babe · Answer

confront him about his manipulation, stand your ground and don't second guess yourself when he denies about the manipulation! be strong!

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i had done this but he never accept.

Recovering_babe · Answer

okay... some dirty advice coming your way... do him like he did you and when he gets upset.. just say 'you don't like the taste of your own medicine huh?! ' hopefully he'll learn the lesson of not repeating toxic cycles

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i had done everything , actually i am mentalky very weak, i guess he takes advantage of this.

Recovering_babe · Answer

that's what I said the first time. stay strong and never leave your ground.

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i fed up of fighting with him , gone crazy . I have become someone , i never been like that.

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i have become a mental person , i yell like crazy.

Recovering_babe · Answer

okay... stop responding to his sh*t. give him no reason. eventually he'll just tire himself out

Recovering_babe · Answer

*reaction

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i am not able to do anything

Recovering_babe · Answer

start building yourself. stop giving him attention.

needfulsardines3 · Answer

neither i am patient person nor mentally strong.

Recovering_babe · Answer

you have to patient and strong for yourself!

needfulsardines3 · Answer

m pagal ho ri hu

needfulsardines3 · Answer

bht gussa a ra h mujhe

needfulsardines3 · Answer

bht jyada

deep_thinker · Answer

i had similar experience and finally get over it!

needfulsardines3 · Answer

how

needfulsardines3 · Answer

m pagal ho gai bh

needfulsardines3 · Answer

kuch kam ni krta mepe

needfulsardines3 · Answer

nind ni ati

needfulsardines3 · Answer

meri lifw nark bna di h is admi ne

Recovering_babe · Answer

are yaar... apni life ka control apne pass hona chahiye... tell me... what do you want? as of this moment.. kya chahati kya ho?

needfulsardines3 · Answer

m chahti hu jesa pyar m usse krti hu jo m usse expect krti hu mujhe milw

needfulsardines3 · Answer

o manipulate kr krk mko pagal kr ra h

Recovering_babe · Answer

okay... iska matlab tum chahti ho k agar tum JUST IMAGINE... k because you don't eat a tiger, a tiger shouldn't eat you... is that logical ??

Recovering_babe · Answer

tiger vahi karega jo uski fitrat ho... tum kisi ki fitrat badalna chaahate ho?? does that happen?

needfulsardines3 · Answer

o mko ullu bnata h apni bato se

needfulsardines3 · Answer

ha to ab q fitrat change ho ri

needfulsardines3 · Answer

m aise pagal ni hona chahti

needfulsardines3 · Answer

mko ni pta mere liw kya shi h kya galat mujhe kuch smjh ni a ra

needfulsardines3 · Answer

bs itta pta h ye sari chije mese bardast ni ho ri

Recovering_babe · Answer

dekho baat aisi hai... tum jaanti ho he's not good for you par phir bhi usko rakhana chahti ho...

needfulsardines3 · Answer

har roj khun jalta h mera

needfulsardines3 · Answer

m ek bar chod chuki t cmpltly

needfulsardines3 · Answer

lkn usne mko emotiinalyy fir se le aya

deep_thinker · Answer

she manipulated me with multiple stories 🙄 Even though things were beyond my practical intellect, I was reduced to a state of believing them all.Finally I thought a lot and made a decision. I intentionally stay away from her for a few days, and i analysed the days with her and without her presence. I felt more positive energy and peace without her.

Recovering_babe · Answer

you're only not clear about what you want... and that's why he can take advantage of you.

needfulsardines3 · Answer

😔😔

needfulsardines3 · Answer

hmm

deep_thinker · Answer

We cannot easily escape from them.  Slowly try for it without them knowing.  If they realize that we are trying to get away from them, they will surely tell a different story and try to hold us back.  They will know very well what our weakness is. Try to escape very slowly.  with them, our life will definitely be ruined. I say this from my experience.

needfulsardines3 · Answer

m badla lena chHti hu apne mental harasmnt ka

needfulsardines3 · Answer

usko whi same mental harasment dena chahti hu bs

deep_thinker · Answer

idk hindi please type in eng

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i want revenge of my mental harassmnt.

deep_thinker · Answer

If we go to take revenge on them, we will fall into their trap again.

deep_thinker · Answer

its better to step back slowly

deep_thinker · Answer

It is better to deliver things in such a way that they themselves leave us.

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i dont want anything else in this life , only want to give hime the same torture ,even if my life end

Recovering_babe · Answer

I've already told you what to do... and what to say after!

deep_thinker · Answer

The vengeful mind destroys ourselves first. Is that what you want?

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i am a straight forward person , i cant do this slow thing manipulativs thing

needfulsardines3 · Answer

agr ye itta asana hota to mko usk sath survive krne me ityi problm nj hkti

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i cant control this energy

deep_thinker · Answer

What is the use of going to a destination straightaway that can only be reached by taking a crooked path?

deep_thinker · Answer

I have faced the same situation

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i had left him once completely but he didnt let me go .

deep_thinker · Answer

i have also tried straight things bt it won't work

deep_thinker · Answer

Make a firm decision.  No matter what happens, don't keep contact with him

needfulsardines3 · Answer

i have tried everything, now only one thing i can think of destroy his life even if my life also destroy.

deep_thinker · Answer

what's ur age

needfulsardines3 · Answer

28

deep_thinker · Answer

show some maturity

needfulsardines3 · Answer

when he becomes manupulative not showing maturity then why will i?

deep_thinker · Answer

Please re-read what I said and leave the relationship if you can. Inform your parents if necessary.

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?