I just got out of a relationship nearly a week ago. He had told me he cheated on me and asked what is gonna happen next. I told him I wanted to stay and talk it out and then he literally convinced me it w a better if we ended things cause I'd be more hurt if he'd continue cheating. So yeah we broke it off and he called me a few times after that just to speak and we spoke for hours together. Today again he called and asked if I'd want to get back together with him and I told him I can't tell it just yet and needed time and he asked me to answer immediately and I gave him a no telling I had promised myself that I'd stay away from relationships for a few months he told me time wouldn't make a difference. But I still told no.... did I do it right? or should I have told yes cause he was genuinely telling we could work it out together...and that is why I am confused right now... what do I do?
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I just got out of a relationship nearly a week ago. He had told me he cheated on me and asked what is gonna happen next. I told him I wanted to stay and talk it out and then he literally convinced me it w a better if we ended things cause I'd be more hurt if he'd continue cheating. So yeah we broke it off and he called me a few times after that just to speak and we spoke for hours together. Today again he called and asked if I'd want to get back together with him and I told him I can't tell it just yet and needed time and he asked me to answer immediately and I gave him a no telling I had promised myself that I'd stay away from relationships for a few months he told me time wouldn't make a difference. But I still told no.... did I do it right? or should I have told yes cause he was genuinely telling we could work it out together...and that is why I am confused right now... what do I do?

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