everyone has his own perspective... it will be the last act committed by the person.... but after this there are other consequences which his /her family goes through.
nauseatedperson
it won't be our problem then right?
skylar
that's what makes people or society call us selfish people .
nauseatedperson
what if you act selflessly for your whole life and do just one selfish thing?
skylar
I can't say for everyone, that's what I used to think but then my friends (we live in same locality)cousin brother committed suicide, followed by his elder sister - 3 yrs later - I saw how it affected the whole family and how it changed her . it made me realise what a person leaves behind.... I would rather suffer silently my whole life, than leaving the aftermath of my deeds on someone else's shoulder... - it seems like a debt to me.
nauseatedperson
then maybe act like a brat.. so people would be relieved
skylar
u need to be more clear here and reframe ur words
nauseatedperson
okay if a person acts rudely with people and family then won't they be relieved when he offs himself
skylar
it doesn't work like that... people have their own way of coping grief... some show in crying, some in anger... some in disappointment.. some just put blame on the one who's no more to give themselves satisfaction