in a relationship... we all do our best, so that it will work smoothly... but now my bf is behaving like he is the center of our relationship....... I'm hurting because of his constant mood swings, yesterday he was chilled... & today irritated (god knows why).......... because I'm a sshort tempered girl, I started to avoid things... but now my every movement will annoy him.......I just want peace, respect & acceptances....... not constant blames

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pluckyotter2 · Answer

try talking to him about your fears

winterpanda · Answer

I tried... & he understands me... but only for 2days.... after that, back to start

pluckyotter2 · Answer

think if you can survive like this with him

pluckyotter2 · Answer

think what is more important for u this relation or ur  self respect

winterpanda · Answer

I don't know... how long I can survive like this

pluckyotter2 · Answer

since when ur in relation with him

winterpanda · Answer

actually both... relationship & self esteem.... both are important to me....... but don't know how to manage this

winterpanda · Answer

8 years

pluckyotter2 · Answer

ok so from 8 yrs he is like that

winterpanda · Answer

from 1year

pluckyotter2 · Answer

do u ask why is that change

winterpanda · Answer

his replies.... work, career, family, financial issues

pluckyotter2 · Answer

see as ur suffering u have two solutions 1 try explaining him that u r suffering so much, try to make him understand see whether he can change .give him a chance to change himself and any chance if he doesnt change then go for a 2 option that is walk out of that relationship because u can't suffer all ur life think wisely.

winterpanda · Answer

thank you so much ❤️for your support I will surely do something........ but it will be going to be really difficult for me.. but I'll try

pluckyotter2 · Answer

u r always welcome. think wisely because at the u should not regret .i wish u all the happiness

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup