hey there, I'm sorry you feel this way. I recommend you communicate with your husband and talk out everything that is going on between you two. if he doesn't want to communicate then he's being toxic. one thing I encourage you to do, is to not stay with someone who doesn't care about you. I know it might sound harsh, but sadly we have to accept the truth. marriage is about going through joy and sorrow together. and if he doesn't want that then you are not with the right person.
Ineedabreak
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please take care of your mental health...think about what is good for you❤
content2
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His mother and sisters encourge him for divorce..he is not communicating..i love him...he was so nice..but..his mom brainwashed him againt me...i feel so depressive..i cant accept he is not with me..i cant accept divorce
Ineedabreak
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yes then, you shouldn't be with a person who family is against you! right now you might be in denial and I know you love him, but in the end you will keep on wasting your energy trying to fight for a marriage that will be one sided. I'm really sorry you are going through this.
Ineedabreak
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and yet again, would you want to be with someone who has a family that despises you? Will you feel happy and comfortable living that way knowing his family doesn't like you? and if he truly loved you he wouldn't have fell for the brainwash.
thesillyone
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if his family can brainwash him it's his fault... if he has true love for you... he won't be ready to divorce you... it's very hard to tell.. but you have to walk away from this for your own good.... I feel really sorry to tell that... More power to you.... ❤️
content2
yes..i feel bad about my situation.but i cant live without him..even thought of loosing him scared me a lot..this my second marraige...i cant go through divorce twice
thesillyone
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please don't lose your self respect... if he wants to let you go.. let him go... it will be so painful.. but time will heal you... you will be happy later that you took this decision..
content2
i have daughter too...she want her father
thesillyone
how old is she??
content2
7 yrs old..she dont want our divorce
thesillyone
how is her father's attitude towards her
content2
her father is not attached with her at all..infact he is tourturing her by not picking her call..not answering text..she was admitted in hospital recently..he didnt come to see her..he tell her that her mom is very bad humanbeing
content2
he tells her daughter that he want to marry again
thesillyone
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ohhh.... so he is not good to her also.. so the signs are clear...
thesillyone
he want to marry again??? is there any other woman he is attracted to?
Ineedabreak
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pls think of your daughter and yourself. and let this man go.
content2
i dont know about his extramarital relationship
thesillyone
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yes it is true please walk away from him... The more u stay in this marriage the more you will be traumatizing yourself
Ineedabreak
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if you keep on staying where you do t belong, your child will be raised with the wrong example. a father is supposed to be there for his child. clearly your husband isn't doing that.
content2
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but i cant live alone whole life..my mom is passed away..only my father is there for me..i am scared..how i will survive alone
Ineedabreak
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I think you are attached to him, and that's okay because you fell inlov with him. but please be realistic and let go of him and focus on making you and your daughter happy.
Ineedabreak
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you won't live alone. I sure you will find someone who loves you the same way u show your love.
content2
i cant find..i broke two times..i divorce two times..who will settle with me
thesillyone
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it will take time... but I am sure that it will be worth it..... you will be so relieved later..
thesillyone
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you should never give up on yourself.. you have to stay strong...you will move on eventually... now all you have to do is accept the divorce and move away from him....