i coulnt help but not being able to control myself of the habit of pleasing others so they laugh and happy that yesterday in relative get together i just out of my blunt and unfiltered personality said my feelings to them and they in return made joke of me
but through this you are not pleasing them
It's ok. Now you know where to share your feelings and where not ...
maybe i have some pyschologically over pleasing problem that i just keep saying what is inside me without considering what will happen if they use this side of me to take advantage of me in future
bro see people need to share their feelings, thought and emotions to people who understand them and they feel safe with them
if you think they are one of those people who is their just to take advantage of your vulnerability, avoid sharing anything with them
sometimes i think i resloved this issue but when i feel cornered or even though not ignored but i feel i deserve this
what issue are you talking about
hey should i not think bad about not telling these things and i was saying alertchile that just casually they made jokes on me that i wear rings in my finger, i should be ashamed of my peesonality
can share main thing thats botgering me if you allow
im really sick of myself
no way... you should not be ashamed of yourself just because you wear rings. Do you see now how stupid people's conversations are ? Just to communicate or have something to discuss they are talking about something so normal and trying to put you down..
sure, go ahead
i deeply feel that they show something else on ther face but i know they secretly hate me
okay did you do something wrong to them?
so it's not your problem bro. Your job is to be good to yourself and your surroundings
and you are doing that
Then I don't think you need to worry about their emotions whether it's hate or love...just do your part
see when you have done nothing but they hate you.... so it's not something wrong happened through your side..but maybe it's just how they are...and you cannot undo anything because you did nothing..right?