r there any issues related to weather or anything else?
Abraham
bad habits killing my time
want2liv
job issues like before what u have told?
Abraham
yeah
want2liv
last time u have said this also what actually do u mean by bad habits?
Abraham
yeah
Abraham
health is draining cauz of this
want2liv
if it's for weather related issues then just take proper and u will b gud in no time also don't stress so much about ur job as thinking more will only drain urself
want2liv
u r falling sick only bcoz u r thinking more than needed and also due to being irresponsible regarding ur health
Abraham
mm
want2liv
what mmπ
Abraham
new one joining my office today
want2liv
u just have to understand things. also it's not important to take all things seriously or give it a thinking, sometimes u just have to ignore or let things go
Abraham
i think that person has gender issues
want2liv
ohk so is there any issue about that?
want2liv
like?
Abraham
i can't mingle with that kinda ppl
Abraham
idk much
Abraham
this also disappointing me
Abraham
so many reasons to resign
want2liv
well that's not important that u feel comfortable around every single one at ur workplace. it's just common as due to different nature nd behaviour it happens
want2liv
ohk tell me what r ur many reasons to resign
Abraham
But those who are like this will see us in a bad way
Abraham
no hike
Abraham
less work
Abraham
non productive hours
want2liv
see u know who u r nd u r not wrong in anyway then don't give priority to what others think about u or what is happening to u. just believe urself and trust urself as u will not do anything bad to anyone. that's it
Abraham
arrogant CEO
want2liv
well it's not necessary that u get a hectic schedule in all jobs also that's gud for u as u also have to take care of urself not b a bull for work
Abraham
i can't even think that person sitting near me
Abraham
it's irritating
want2liv
i don't know much about jobs bt as far as i have listened to all my czns that r doing jobs all their heads r either rude or arrogant
Abraham
god will definitely punish me for this kinda thoughts
want2liv
why not to take it lightly? just ignore that this person is sitting next to u. enjoy ur work. ur company. just think that who is that person to decide to what to make u feel. totally ignore their existence
want2liv
why will God punish u? it's nothing gud to b with someone who's gud to u nd even gud have said that u should keep a distance from those who r not gud for u
Abraham
how can i ignore
want2liv
1
see if there r 100 reasons for u to quit then there r 10 reasons for u to stay too. it's upto u what to prioritise, negative ones or positive ones
want2liv
1
just think that this person don't mean anything to u that's it. there r thousands of PPL in world bt we spend our life without even giving a damn about their thoughts so why do think about or care about their perspective
want2liv
1
it's ur life. b gud and honest to urself. don't others take decisions from ur part
Abraham
i can't mingle with that person
Abraham
like eating lunch together
Abraham
how can i avoid this situations
want2liv
is it necessary to mingle with every single prsn of ur work
want2liv
does only that person eats lunch with u? I'm sure others r there too then just avoid him nd focus on others
Abraham
i ll try
Abraham
idk why am thinking like this
want2liv
see u have to take something lightly. if that prsn is rude or don't behave gud just let it b. enjoy others company or try to b formal only
Abraham
they alrdy suffered alot in their life
want2liv
u r giving even slight things a thought. it's not gud just let things b. u don't have to think about each n everything
Abraham
mm
want2liv
who others?
want2liv
again mmπ
Abraham
please advice me more
Abraham
ππ
want2liv
stop thinking so much or I'll just make u forget all of ur memory
Abraham
how
want2liv
during ur school tym, do u read whole book before giving an exam?
want2liv
by hitting ur head with a brickπ
Abraham
nope
Abraham
do you?
want2liv
u read only the important topics nd skip all that's not necessary ryt?
want2liv
what do I?
Abraham
yeah
Abraham
1
wish to talk abt ma bad habits
want2liv
1
so just think about that prsn as an unnecessary topic which have nothing to do with which u have to skip. just ignore him like u ignore those topics even if that's in the same book u r reading
want2liv
sure I'm here to listen
Abraham
1
sure i ll try
want2liv
gud nd don't think much about it
Abraham
nowadays am struggling with high sexual drives
Abraham
i want to stop this
Abraham
u gone?
want2liv
well r they becoz of stress or something else?
Abraham
idk
want2liv
no I'm here
want2liv
have u experienced this before?
Abraham
i don't have such feelings for a while
Abraham
yeah
Abraham
after a long gap
Abraham
it's draining my mental health
want2liv
so that's nothing bad. it's only due to hormonal changes nothing else.
want2liv
u just have to control urself
Abraham
how to prevent this
Abraham
i can't control
want2liv
how it's draining ur mental health?
Abraham
pray for me please
Abraham
frustration
want2liv
u just have to make a strong will power that no matter what happen u will have it under control
want2liv
first of all just don't think much about anything as that's the base of ur frustration
Abraham
yeah
Abraham
pray for me
Abraham
pray for ma peace
Abraham
only god can help me
want2liv
also at this age everyone have basic needs which r to be fulfilled whether that's mental,physical or emotional. so that's not a big deal if u have such needs
want2liv
u have to calm down first
Abraham
mm
want2liv
Abraham
Abraham
i ll go to church bf4 going to office
Abraham
amreen
want2liv
u r Christian?
want2liv
1
calm down
Abraham
yeah
want2liv
so it's going to b festival for u soon, ryt?
Abraham
yeah
want2liv
why not prepare for it
want2liv
1
well I have visited a chapel once
Abraham
mm
Abraham
how ws the feel
want2liv
again mmπ
Abraham
sorry
Abraham
can we talk tonight?
want2liv
1
i have felt peaceful as i was disturbed at that time nd we have a chapel in our college so i have go there to b alone for sometime
want2liv
no problem
Abraham
am having one side headache
want2liv
sure we can talk bt don't u have to wake early for work